Need help , i am confused ... females only..?

Question

please tell me if size doesn't matter, why do all females say they want the big ones ?
i have small one, does it mean i am out of luck to get girls?
i am 16 yr , and i have 2 inch wthout irrect and 3 inch with errect . i think it is less in length. is it to small according to my age ? what should be the average or exact size of my pnis according to age ? my girlfriend says that it is smaller in length , less than average .what size is just right ? should i increase its size ? how i can increase it ? i am confused and scared because i am smaller than other guys. will it cause serious problem after marriage .i have not enjoyed sex with girl yet ? so please help .Thanks for suggetions .

Answer 1

Size doesn't matter to me and usually it doesn't matter to other girls so I wouldn't worry :).

But if you are getting concerned, see your doctor - you could have growth development problems.

Answer 2

The bad news is that you cant change its size. What you have is what you are stuck with.
The good news is that when a girl really likes a guy, enough to want to sleep with him, the last thing she is thinking about is what size he is.

When we talk about wanting a big guy we are usually just joking around or referring to casual sex.

You are still really young but as you get older and have more serious relationships you will realise how inconsequential size is plus as you get more experience you will learn how to satisfy a girl regardless of size.

Probably the reason you are not enjoying sex is because you are so worried about it. If thats the case you probably wont enjoy sex until you can have it with someone you really care about who realy cares about you. For the first 6 years of my having an active sexlife I was convinced I was bad in bed and that it was the reason I never had lasting relationships and I never really enjoyed sex. When I finally found a guy who really cared for me and that I felt comfortable with it was like a whole new world suddenly opened up and now I love sex and am heaps more confident in bed.

Try not to worry about it so much, this is one of those things that will sort itself out naturally over time and 10 years from now you will be laughing about it and wondering why you were so worried in the first place. Trust me, your feelings are perfectly natural but you seriously have nothing to worry about. There is no "Normal" size, everyone is different and beautiful in their own way.

Answer 3

Okay, don't freak out. Every man has a different sized penis and so you say yours is 3inches when erect. Here's the deal, you're stuck with what you have BUT have you ever heard the saying, 'it's not the size that matters, it's how you use it.'

When you start to become sexually active, there are many other techniques you, as man, can master and seriously drive a woman crazy! And I'm not just talking intercourse.

Also, your partner (girlfriend) should love you for who you are and not the size of your penis. She should be supportive of you. Doesn't sound like that's what's going on.

Good luck and ALWAYS practice safe sex!

Answer 4

A lot of women like to talk about a 'large' guy because of the feeling of 'fullness'. But to be honest, most of the time it just hurts. It's just a bragging game. I just posted an answer to something that involved orgasms. Girls mainly get off with their clitoris, so you're not inadequate at ALL.

Anyway, you're 16. You still have growing to do. You're possibly not stuck with your current size. My husband went through a final growing spurt at 18. Now, I don't know what his penis size was before then, but he is definately average, maybe a little more. And average can range from 4-6 inches!

Don't worry. You are going to be just fine and if any woman loves you enough to choose to spend her life with you, your penis size is the least of what she's caring about.

Answer 5

If size matters to a girl, then dump her, because she is shallow and doesn't deserve you!!

The obsession people have with looks and body shapes comes from totally overrating the importance of sex and forgetting the meaning of love. If a woman loves you, she will love you the way God made you.

Also, if you feel uncertain about yourself because of something so unimportant, it might have an unnecessary negative effect on your personality. Be strong enough not to allow that. Keep believing in yourself, your abilities, your good qualities, and you will be more attractive and self-assured than guys with big ones!

I hope you will one day find a woman who knows how to love...

Answer 6

heyyyyyy... it's not that bad i mean not all women r the same as not all men r the same but 95% of woman wont really care ...


even u r small , i mean a penis which is ONLY 7-8 cm would b considered fine cz anyway a woman's vagina is only 7 cm long , so why u r makin it a big deal , calm down , n while erection , it will b ok , even the G-spot is in the vagina which is only 7 cm long .

i dnt knw why men r so busy thinking abt that , man sex is more than sex it's passion , love , desire.

and after all trust me even small Ppl can satisfy their woman , G-spot is inside the vagina that's 7cm .
also it's how u use it , n woman have fantasies abt cuddling , they like cuddling , kissing , hugging more than the sex itself , they want foreplay , foreplay foreplay.....u knw that 70% of women cant catch orgasms during intercourse n they get more than one during the foreplay that's more important to them , so a man who wants to b wanted n satisfy their woman they will have to understand what do women want , they want to feel loved n liked by the lover n cuddling , n kisses all over her body , try n see.

Answer 7

Honey, don't listen to the boys who brag about a 6 inch or 8 inch, they're probably dreaming! It's how you use what you have that's important. And there are other ways to pleasure a woman anyway.... you also have hands and fingers, a tongue, so don't just focus on the penis!

Answer 8

it is not short it is very short unfortunately the normal length is about 15 cm erect according to your age...anyhow don't worry just wait one or 2 years and see what happen

Answer 9

don't worry about it everybody is different. I don't care what size it is. just as long as you know how to use it. That is all that counts. If you are really upset about it talk to your dad or the doctor.

Answer 10

WELL, I AM 25, AND HAVE HAD SEX WITH A GUY WHO WAS SMALL, TRUE, SATISFACTION IS REACHED BETTER WHEN A BOY IS BIGGER BUT WELL, OKAY. TRY PUTTING YOUR GIRFRIEND'S LEGS AROUND YOUR NECK WHILE HAVING SEX. IT INCREASES THE FEELING. TRY THE POSITION AND IT SHOULD WORK. IT SHOULD GIVE HER A FEELING OF HAVING SEX WITH A BIGGER GUY AND IT'S COOL. TRY IT AND SEE HOW SHE LIKES IT.