I'm sick,tired,fed up,effed up,having enough of life..?

Question

I can't take it anymore. I'm only 14 but my health is failing seriously,I'm not intelligent as others and I'm not as handsome as the others...i don't have anything..im so effed up of life..so many things to deal with..including the pressure of studies..and so much more...i have no friends in school i feel alienated...i just feel like ending my life...life is meaningless..

Answer 1

Talk to your parents and school couselors also you need to see a therapist outside of school.Sweetheart you are far too young to have a clue what life is all about.Hope you get to feeling better..

Answer 2

First I want to tell you that you are not alone. There are other 14 year olds with similar problems and I hope some will answer this question. Second, I know that I can't tell you anything you don't already know, but this is the only life we get. You don't have to be anything. You are who you are. That should be good enough for everyone to accept. School for me was most difficult at age 14. Right now, you are not entirely who you are going to be. Only you have the power to shape that. I am sorry that you have failing health. I have a degenerative disease, a son with a serious disability, and a husband whom I love very much with a mental illness he hid for 15 years. Rather than viewing myself as a victim (and it is a challenge for me) I have decided to take each day minute by minute , hr. by hr. , day by day instead of just thinking what my future will be. I have had periods of great happiness in my life, although age 14 was not one for me. Nothing remains constant, hang in there. Talk to someone who can help you, that is what they are there...a relative, school counselor, call a hot line. You certainly sound intelligent to me. Don't give up!

Answer 3

THE HORMONES! Please.. take a hold of yourself. You are having a huge hormone attack. You will be fine, have faith in yourself. We are all beautiful, you included. You are the most unique person, there is no-one like you. I know it's not easy, but that's what makes life so exciting, the fact that there is so much uncertainty, you just never know what surprises await you.

Stay positive, let go of FEAR. There's nothing to fear. Hold a positive image in your mind of a good outcome, say to yourself that YOU CAN DO IT, you are proud of what you have achieved so far, AND DON'T COMPARE YOURSELF TO ANYONE ELSE, EVER. YOU ARE JUST GROWING UP and discovering the exciting things in life. Take a deep breath, God loves you and wants you to do your best and that's all you can do. You will make friends when others see you as a happy nice person. People stay away from negative sad looking people. Don't worry, be happy. See a doctor about your condition and best of luck!

Answer 4

Then make friends here and let us help you make your life nicer. I am from India and I am 27. I think life is amazing and though we dont have great things out here, I enjoy each minute of it and want to travel the world once. Once I can do better and save up I will treat myself.

You are 14, please wake up and see that God gave you a great life so live it well

Answer 5

Whatever you do, life is too valuable to give up at the age of 14. We are all unique. After all, we're all people, aren't we? We have our rights. Our outside means little. Think about your personality. Look on the bright side. (You would write great novels, though.)

Answer 6

I think you are pooling my leg.14 is a bad age it does get better.Give it another year if things don't get any better for you call a hot line for help!

Answer 7

oh
there are two of us now
i v bin feeling so since i was 14
and now i have kids the youngest is 18

Answer 8

You can spell well, that's something to start with.

Answer 9

...and an EMO is born!