I was wondering if mutual love is possible? In other words, is mutual infatution possible? It seems that most people experience unrequited love. O they are in a relationship where one is more in love than the other, but one cares and loves, but not in an infatuated sense, but instead receives the love.
Is it possible for both people to be infatuated?
2007-03-18 00:17:26 · 14 answers · asked by wcarolinew 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Mutual Love is the usual state.
Infatuation, Crushes, Limerence and Romance are all usually one sided. Most of us have to experience Infatuation, Crushes, and Romance before we are able to recognize Love.
2007-03-18 00:23:20 · answer #1 · answered by Richard 7 · 10⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-20 18:45:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. My current relationship started out as mutual infatuation, and progressed to mutual love. We've been together a couple years now . . .
2007-03-18 00:22:35 · answer #3 · answered by alma_jolie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes definitely there is mutual love and infatuation. In fact if your partner isn't as in love with you as you are with them, that's a sign that you're probably somewhat incompatible for the long term. But I know of a great many relationships in which both people are in love, and I would say this of my own marriage also.
2007-03-18 00:20:44 · answer #4 · answered by charmedchiclet 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you love to be loved than you are not truly loving. Love isnt a response it is an action. This applies to all we do: If you apologize to be apologized to you truly havent apologized. If you thank someone to be thanked you truly arent thankful. If you forgive to be forgiven you truly havent forgiven ..... The question you should be asking is do you love in the way you desire to be loved without expectation. If we expect anything for something we give or do than there is no reason for it. For yourself write down what it is to love and ask yourself are you loving as you expect to be loved? Then love without expectation and you will discover you are loved far greater than what you expected to be love.
Love Is the Greatest
1 If I could speak all the languages of earth and of angels, but didn’t love others, I would only be a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. 2 If I had the gift of prophecy, and if I understood all of God’s secret plans and possessed all knowledge, and if I had such faith that I could move mountains, but didn’t love others, I would be nothing. 3 If I gave everything I have to the poor and even sacrificed my body, I could boast about it;[a] but if I didn’t love others, I would have gained nothing.
4 Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud 5 or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. 6 It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. 7 Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.
8 Prophecy and speaking in unknown languages[b] and special knowledge will become useless. But love will last forever! 9 Now our knowledge is partial and incomplete, and even the gift of prophecy reveals only part of the whole picture! 10 But when full understanding comes, these partial things will become useless.
11 When I was a child, I spoke and thought and reasoned as a child. But when I grew up, I put away childish things. 12 Now we see things imperfectly as in a cloudy mirror, but then we will see everything with perfect clarity.[c] All that I know now is partial and incomplete, but then I will know everything completely, just as God now knows me completely.
13 Three things will last forever—faith, hope, and love—and the greatest of these is love.
2007-03-18 01:17:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
yes, mutual love is possible
infatuation is kind of a "foolish admiration"
usually one is always in a "different place" with their feelings and emotions in any relationship, even marriages..
communication is the key and most people dont communicate effectively, thus leading to most problems
watch sometime...
Dr Phil
Keith Ablow,
Maury
others
... TV soaps and shows(movies)..everything in them is based on real life situations these days...you would think everyone who watches these would have learned some lessons by now? LOL
2007-03-18 00:29:57 · answer #6 · answered by Gary G 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Everyone is so interested in finding the right one instead of being the right one. Ust do the right thing and all the rest will follow and I agree with balboa cause love is a verb.
2007-03-18 04:53:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love and Infatuation is no easy answer for us human beings. The only answer I can give you is, it`s possible to love and to be infatuated.
2007-03-18 00:27:46 · answer #8 · answered by jamesanderson22 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have seen that as well as experienced that, But my husband and I connected on that deep level together.
Oh there are days where it fades into the background, then there are days when it fully blooms.
That is why you must always work at a marriage and not take it for granted.
2007-03-18 00:22:28 · answer #9 · answered by jenshensnest 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
i doubt that very much
i m sure for ccertain period in ertain age you might have felt it
then with time factor passes and you are tied to this mutual
you will find all was in the past and there are new facts on ground
meaning there is nothing guaranteed for ever
of course there are the exceptions with range of 1 in 1 000 000
2007-03-18 00:24:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋