I tried to test my husband by sending him emails by the name of another girl & he answered. How should I react

Question

I sent an email to my husband by the name of another girl. In my email I wrote that I was interested about him. He answered that he does not remember me and perhaps he wanted more information about the girl. How should I react or How should I handle the next emails?

Answer 1

Your playing with fire, don't be surprised if you get burnt.
-NmD!

Answer 2

Isn't there enough temptation out there without you being the one to trap your own husband?
To handle this you should drop hints in the next email that it is you I agree with the picture thing or something of that sort and turn it into a sexy game where you are pretending to be someone else. The excitement of a fling (with his wife of course) will interest him and could be fun. Make sure he knows it is you though.
In the future don't ever do that again. If your husband wants to cheat or meet other women he will but you shouldn't be setting him up for failure.

Answer 3

Isn't that entrapment??
Give him the benefit of the doubt for the time being. He may have been asking so he could find out whether the emails had been sent to him by mistake.
Perhaps he is just curious to know who it is before he tells her he's not interested?
Have to admit if I got an email about a guy interested in me I would be curious to know who it was.... then I'd tell him I'm not interested and happily married.

You obviously don't trust him?

Answer 4

Why do you want 2 test your husband?? Do you not trust him????

Look deary.... if he was interested in the chick he wouldve asked you to meet up sometime for a so called catch up. Id say STOP IT NOW B4 You do your marriage some damage, over a stupid test!!!!!! Dont doom your marriage b4 its over, it wouldve been a waste of time marrying him.

Look mate I dnt mean 2 sound mean but thats the truth, your gonna ruin your marriag b4 it even has a chance 2 grow. So do you and your husband a favor & stop it now and tell your husband that it was you that emailed him with another name

Be honest with your husband otherwise hes gonna have doubts about you and do you want that????

Good luck

Answer 5

You are so playing with fire girl... Playing games will land you in divorce court and you'll have only yourself to blame. This will become a snowball effect if you don't confess to your husband soon.
One small lie will turn into a bigger lie to cover up the small lie and so on, and so on... Get the picture?
Personally, I think that playing games like that gives you a reason to feel some sort of sick excitement because of possibilities that might not even be there to begin with.
Grow up, fess up to your husband and make things right before your marriage chokes.

Answer 6

Regaurdless of what every1 else is saying here, ive done the same thing once before and i know how it feels. So you sent him an email like that! so what! If your husband truley loves you, hed say he was happily married ect. He should be able to fight the impulse to send anything back other than friendly. Coz that email could have been from any other female, he doesnt know that its you, so if he does send anything back that goes beyond friendship, i think you should then tell him that it is you and talk to him about it. Then take it from there. Cant realy tell u how to react, just follow the way you feel.

Answer 7

Well i think it is very snaky on your end to try and set up your husband like that. But ne one would answer that way. So i think you should stop the games, your playing with fire.

But since you already started, to end it, i think you should say that you met in a conference, or school, or at a bar, and he gave you that email, and say dont you remember me, try to fish out his past to see if he will confess to anything that you dont know about. Then if he says sorry dont know you, STOP. You shouldnt be toying with your marriage.

Answer 8

would you feel ashamed if he knew it all along it was you?
how would you react and handle the next emails? maybe if run out of ideas to lie to him, you should say (as the different person), you thought he was someone you knew and you got the wrong person. you knew someone else with the exact same name as his.
for all you know, if he replied his mails from his office, it could be his subordinate replying for him. bye!

Answer 9

I'm sorry, but I would be to curious by this point. IF you really want to find out if he'd be faithful to you, you could continue the e-mails and see if you can entice him. If he agrees to meet with you then I'd plan a time and place to meet him and go there yourself. Introduce yourself as this "mistress". That would really get him! If he turns "her" down, you can pretty much trust this guy and I'd never say anything about it. Please be sure you are prepared for your answers that you get before you do this. Good luck!

Answer 10

NAUGHTY NAUGHTY!! Thats a dangerous game your playing. Anyway.. He said he does not remember (you) thats a good sign. He hasnt asked for more details of you and he hasnt asked to meet up. Trust your husband and stop playing silly games with him, if he finds out it was you then you could end up hurting.

Answer 11

Wow. What an insecure b*tchy immature spiteful game playing witch. "Test". Who died and left you in charge? Your complete insecurity creates so much doubt in your mind that you are willing to use creepy slimy underhanded sneaky tactics like this?
Of course, if he did such a thing to you, you'd be livid with rage, refuse to be with him any more, and cut off his balls in anger. So what should *your* punishment be?