but the truth is i'm so sick of this, really its not that i'm jealous, but all she ever talks about is her boyfriend, how do i tell her that i'm sick of it without hurting her feelings. our friendship do me no good but depress me. we are in the same class so i can't just ignore her.please help,it's a matter of boredom and happiness!
2007-03-16 22:18:03 · 5 answers · asked by sunshine 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
get her interested into things in life that are equally if not more interesting than her boyfriend.
2007-03-16 22:21:57 · answer #1 · answered by yugi67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you don't want to just blab it out. If it's really a friend you want to be nice about it. Remind her that you're her friend and then nicely tell her you want to talk about something else. Otherwise you could just gently change the subject each time. The think is she's your friend, and it's important to her and friend's talk about everything, right? A true friend would be hurt to find out your "sick" of hearing about her boyfriend and would be willing to try not to talk about it so much if she new it bothered you. If she would just think you are jealous - well she may be just a bit too shallow.
2007-03-17 05:26:13 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand that it makes you sick. But look at this way, it just shows us that her boyfriend is a really great treasure for your friend.
Do you think you could be happy for her with that? I mean, if you also got something very precious, you would want to share it with her, right?
2007-03-17 05:30:40 · answer #3 · answered by Pseudosophy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendship is a part of listening....but I do feel your pain. Sometimes we can take our joy overboard and loose control. You can probably tell her jokingly that you've heard enough....
2007-03-17 05:24:08 · answer #4 · answered by Nini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You also start talking abt urs!! heheheh...well jokes apart...just tell her politely tht ur not interested to know anyones personal life n tht it makes u feel uncomfortable..thts it...shud work!
2007-03-17 05:31:07 · answer #5 · answered by dreamgurl_01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋