I think i am the sickest queer in the world. I have sex with men because its easy. Yet, every fiber in my being is totally attracted to women--physically and emotionally. When i get done having sex with a man--its like "What the hell did i just do?" I feel like a freak--yet i come back for more. Its just sex. Its just sex. Sex, sex, sex, sex, sex. I like sex with women; but sex with men is like "crack". But i feel no emotional connection with men at all. Its just sex. My being wants to have an intimate emotional (and sexual) relationship with a women; but it is prevented in me being "unavailable" to women because i am doing it with guys. I can't, or at least i have never had a LTR with a man. I feel my life slipping away to this probable sex addiction.
2007-03-16 21:24:39 · 8 answers · asked by nooner 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
LTR = Long Term Relationship, other people responding tended to clue in, so yeah...i don't think i will be needing a dictionary...
2007-03-16 21:38:22 · update #1
I think you could do with some counselling. I don't think that you are going to find much help on this site.
2007-03-16 21:29:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a "sick queer", a confused bisexual or a sex addict? I'd guess you're simply a gay dude struggling with an identity crisis. I have no idea how old you are, but your situation is rather common for young dudes who are highly "sexual" and gay, but still immature mentally to deal with the reality of actually being gay. The clue is your "emotional" attraction to women and physical/sexual attraction to men. Once you accept yourself as a gay man, you'll be able to "conceive" the idea of an eventual LTR with a guy. This discovery process takes time. Anyway....enjoy the sex (safely) as you continue your journey.
2007-03-17 04:51:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
It does sound like you're addicted to sex with men, and only attracted to them because of sex.
You're just a bisexual man with a sexual addiction for men.
I think the only thing to worry about is getting any STD's and exactly how much sex you have.
Addiction can get out of control.
2007-03-17 04:29:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is this guilt of having sexual encounters with men that might be killing you. Perhaps you need to get over that first to start feeling comfortable with the idea. Don't compare drug addiction to your desire for having sex with men. Accept the fact that you enjoy sex with men, and that you are not a freak to do so. You need professional help with this matter. That will help you get out feeling you're a wreck.
2007-03-17 04:52:58 · answer #4 · answered by Gaymes Last Orchestra 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ew! It sounds like you'd be willing to do a rhinosaurus if given the opportunity and the thing was willing to have sex. Why don't u respect gay males and leave them alone if ur not gay
2007-03-17 04:31:25 · answer #5 · answered by Gay R 1 · 1⤊ 3⤋
I DONT KNOW WHAT TO TELL YOU SORRRY.
WHAT THE HELL IS A LTR??
TRY THIS WEB SITE
2007-03-17 04:28:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are bi with a strong attraction to men.
the emotional attraction is to women.
2007-03-17 04:28:50 · answer #7 · answered by john john 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think you are pan sexual.
you can love anyone despite sex.
2007-03-17 04:28:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋