My best friend & me know each other since two years. I have always given soo much of love & affection to her... Helped her and her family in everyway, financially, emotionally.... And never asked for anything in return.. Even though I was crying, I always made her smile... Whenever we fought, I was the one who resolved it.. I always kept my ego aside & said sorry to her even if the fault wasn't mine... She says she loves me but she never takes interest in me. I want her to take interest in me... I want to be important for her... I want that she should also express her feelings for me.. I want that she should be desperate to talk to me.. My doing or not doing anything should affect her.. Please help me.. I'm in a bad condition & I need help... I need guidance... :( What do I do ? Is there anyway I can test her feelings for me? Please help... :(
2007-03-16 21:22:46 · 7 answers · asked by Unforgettable 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hey please help me.. Now my friend has even stopped giving me a call.. We just meet online and even then she hardly seems interested to talk to me...
I love her a lot & I can't even imagine my life without her.... I'll die without her... There has to be some way out... Isn't there a way to make her realize my importance? to make her care for me? Please answer my question and show me a way... I've never felt so helpless before... Guide me...
2007-03-16 21:22:59 · update #1
heyy i get that feeling too sometimes but the truth is she still likes you. It's just that she probably has some emotional things going on in her life. Even when it looks like she having fun without you the only reason she would do that is cuz you've helped her a lot and she doesen't want to ask for more help from you cuz she doesen't know how to return a gift to you, like you know how you feel guilty for taking a lot of stuff from one person and not returning anything it's exactly like that. You should call her, arrage things to do together like going to the movies, beaches, shopping or anything that interests her & you. Be outgoing and check out hot guys while you guys are out and don't forget to take pictures of their *** when they are not looking! lol:p i did that before it was fun! don't forget to turn of the flash. show her funny videos lol:P hope my tipped helped you as it helped me!
2007-03-24 13:36:36 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't test her feelings, she wants you to be a true friend. she doesn't want to ruin that. if you feel like that you are to clingy and that is a turn off. let go and lets live.
2007-03-23 22:28:39 · answer #2 · answered by LENA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK I hope y'all aren't lesbians. Jk i know how girls are. if you want a better friendship Help Her in anyway possible!
2007-03-23 21:24:02 · answer #3 · answered by caublenick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should sit down with your friend and tell her exactly how you feel. Maybe she will understand your feelings than.
2007-03-17 05:00:57 · answer #4 · answered by Heidi T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't test her ...leave her . she clearly is not interested anymore. You did what you could.... It will be ok but there is someone out there just for you!
2007-03-17 04:44:16 · answer #5 · answered by remi m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat her!!!!!!
Show ur copies in ur exams!!
Try to stay with her!!!!!!
Call her almost every day!
Go to shopping together!!!
Share some secrets!!!!!!
2007-03-17 04:30:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
me?
2007-03-23 18:39:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋