Your answers can change my life about taking a good life partner from 2 loves.?

Question

Hi,
You know some questions can change life. But I am in two hesitations to build my future that I am
trying to realize you in below:

1. My father doesn't choice Rima ( whom i love about 1 year for marry), He says, "She is too short to marry for future children. (My children will be short if i marry) She is more than 5 feet & looks slim, like a doll, read in 11 class and very simple minded cut girl.
2. Another girl (Boby) she likes & loves me too much, she says, if she could
not get me she can do something. she is more than 5.5 inch. slim & fine, read in honors 2nd year(13 class).
but she loves me too much.


Boby is finest than Rima. But what can i do? I give word to rima. she
likes me too much also.

I am in so tension please helps.
Now I am going to yahoo answer to fine a proper way.
May god help you.

Take care.
Sujon
a unclear mind person

Answer 1

i don't think choosing to live with someone the rest of your life has anything to do with how tall they are. and you never know for sure how your children will turn out to be. what do your heart and mind tell you ? who do you prefer ? as for boby, imagine living with someone who starts off by threatning, in each situation she will threaten you and this can't be healthy. emotional blackmailing is dangerous. and your dad's opinion counts for sure, but at the end you are the one who's getting married. think long term. who do you want to spend the rest of your days with ? you said it already, rima :) best of luck.

Answer 2

Follow your heart and you will never go wrong. Allowing people to make decisons takes your power away, be a man and make your own decisions. To me marriage is a big step, it is you to has to live with your mate so it has to be your choice. Your father must be putting pressure on you, so who you want to marry should be your own decision not your fathers.

Tell your father to marry Boby if he likes her that much.

Answer 3

You need to do what makes you happy. Babe.. Choose who you love, not who your dad. chooses, You have to live w/ the person. look at the inner beauty, not the outer, : it changes as we get older. Which one loves you? Both have very similar Qualities! I would want the one who loves me the most but it won't work unless you want her.