He was there with her and her kids and wanted me to go and buy something the kids needed and leave it off and he promised me that he would be with me Saturday. I told him I would but then backed out and I just let him call and call and I did not answer for an hour and then I did and he was pissed off and I told him I was not going to do it and he was furious. First he said he would pay me when I got there and then later he admitted that he had run out of money paying for the room. Did I do right? I think I would feel really used if I had done what he wanted but now I feel like I let him down and lost major points. Any opinions? Help!!!
2007-03-16 20:35:07 · 3 answers · asked by Texican2007 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Your bi lover called- while he was with a woman?
What did she think of all this?
To be calling one lover, while you are WITH another, is just plain rude. To both .
Oh, and get yourself a T-shirt that reads" I Ain't Your ATM"
2007-03-16 23:48:09 · answer #1 · answered by Alan 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You were half right. This person you share feelings with, needed your help. You need to answer this question: If you were in his shoes, would he help you?
To be mad at him, is not only hurting you, but your relationship as well. Apparently, you forgot that he was your "Bi-sexual" lover. He goes both ways. He needs love and support from both arenas.
You did let him down. Losing major points, I don't know, but you need to call him and talk to him and make up to him. But explain to him how you felt when he called you. Relationships are made up of being honest and truthful with your partner.
He came clean with you when he told you that he ran out of money. I think you need to come clean with him.
2007-03-17 05:01:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is using you. i think you did thew right thing.
2007-03-17 05:44:42 · answer #3 · answered by Justme 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋