why do people discourage simple people disturbing their peace and creating obstacles in life ?

Question

while on the job bossing about and discouraging by words ,actions and hurting the good manners.if a lady is facing social problem against a wrong attitude person,friends are there but these people take each and every chance in life to discourage the simple persons.

Answer 1

Because they can.

Answer 2

Don't assume any one is simple. We are all compex. Some one hurts us, because we let that happen. People are of three kind:
* Willing to be kind, sensitive and help others (Good, decent,people)
* Unwilling to help and stay on the side line (Apathetic)
* Disruptive and wanting to hurt you by words or action (these are usually perople with their own problems of low self esteem)
Always analyse any one and see which category they belong. Then avoid the diruptive kind, be cautious of the apathetic and make every effort to be good yourself and also seek out similar people. Then those who disturb or discourage you will go farther away. Take charge of your life. It is all in your own hands and in your own mind.
Best wishes.

Answer 3

One who is good at something always feel that it is easy. Those who are discouraing lack substance. They are empty vessels making noise. They are in misery. And one answerer has rightly pointed out that misery loves company. But let others be others. You concentrate on yourself. Nobody can make you feel inferior without your consent. I think if you can control yourself, others just cannot dare to control you. Even if your personality is weak in some arear, don't let other people think that you feel low about that. When people observe that you have got a "I lack" kind of feeling, they get encouraged to take you easy and make free with you. Take it from me - Its the hardest thing for a good man to show Bossism. The so-often jenuine praise by others turn them shy and humble. If someone show bossism - know that he is aware of his failures among his peers and he is desperate to get high things in life. Beware- If some bullshit man is showing bossism he might be just creating a hype, just trying to weaken you, to take advantage of you, to make free with you. He just want to take advantage of the circumstances. If it is too much, quit the job. These kind of jobs are aplenty where people will shout at you. I am also like you and have sympathy with you. Practice self confidence. Practice it continually. Unfortunately our body language reveals our self-esteem. So control yourself. Dont have the body language that make other believe that you fear to stand before them. Instead have the body language that show that you have got the pentrating eyes that read people's mind. One way of attaining self cnofidence is to be contended what you have. Dont think that you have not got a car, you have not got this and that. Never ask someone for a favour unless she is your dear friend. Be down to earth. Dare to ask questions. Asking questions weakens the others. Questions are the worst enemy of self- boasters and shouters. Ask questions and behave that you are not listening to the answer.
These are only initial tactics. Slowly you will naturally come to have self confidence. When you have self confidence you naturally becomes unvincable. Self confidence means not believing in the hype. I suggest you to have interest in psycology. Read yourself and read others.
But finally Pray to God. May God help you.

Answer 4

Your question is poorly written, you may have a legitimate case, but your question doesn't reflect that.

It almost sound like everyone isn't being as nice to you as you would have it and worrying about all your problems as you would like for them to. If that is the case, you are the one out of luck and must do your job and worry about your own problems, or seek help in the correct way, not just moan, groan and whine.

Spend your time and energy solving your problems, not complaining in Q&A for a start, perhaps.....but maybe I don't understand your question.

Answer 5

I am not sure if I understand your question correctly. However, sometimes we go through life wondering why people are constantly hurting or troubling us. Perhaps the answer lies in looking in-wards (at yourself) and seeing if their is anything about you that seems to "put-off" people. Small changes in the way we interact with people and improving our inter-personnel skills will go a long way.

Answer 6

In India, we call it Karma.

"For every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction".

If you write that in English, it becomes Newton's law.
If you write thta in Sanskrit, it becomes the law of Karma.

What you are facing now is a result of what you have
done to them in your former life. Verify this with your
elders.

Can you avoid your Karma?

Answer 7

its hard to read your question. are you asking why do people put-down mentally challenged people? if not then sorry, but if so, its because people with low self esteem put others down to prop themselves up in a pedastal and to make themselves feel good. its like a weak person picking on someone weaker. a food chain effect.

Answer 8

Negative people hate the fact that good people don't need them - So they try to Bully good people and it's up to you and I to" Take a Stand "and speak up or they will continue their ignorance

Answer 9

cause simple people are probably happier people and some other people aren't that happy and are jealous...ever hear the saying : misery loves company?

Answer 10

because you have to be a bastard to survive in this world.