i dont know what i want...i hate living here in my country and leaving it is impossible.... i tried so hard to love it but couldnt.....what should i do because im really tired of this feeling
2007-03-16 19:58:50 · 15 answers · asked by nahla t 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
i dont know what i want...i hate living here in my country and leaving it is impossible.... i tried so hard to love it but couldnt.....what should i do because im really tired of this feeling ....
i mean the idea of moving to any aother country is impossible...i wish i was living in Europe or something...i know noone's life is perfect and im not after perfection..i just want to live as a human being
2007-03-16 20:19:06 · update #1
i live in Egypt...and whenever i think of going anywhere, i face all the difficulties.....and also i have a problem which may sound silly but i have it....i dont believe in myself, im all the time trying to please others inorder to feel that im good...i dont have a way of thinking of my own and sometimes im jelous from others....
2007-03-16 21:19:47 · update #2
If you don't know something, you cannot love it.
Get out into your country, study it, serve it, learn its history, its people, its needs and do something about them.
It is when you have learned to love yourself and have earned some self respect, that you will begin to love something/someone else.
2007-03-20 10:50:13 · answer #1 · answered by jimgdad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Egypt is very over-crowded so if you're surrounded by lots of people, that can be maddening... also there is a lot of poverty & corruption- the flagrant monetary aspirations of most people these days can be life & soul destroying... society bullying folk into believing money is God...
But if you feel somewhere inside you, that's not OK, then join Humanity in answering true needs... Find a cause you do believe in, something that helps to REDUCE suffering... perhaps there are children in need where you live who you could help in some way that will help to brighten their lives?
There is more pleasure in giving, & through that you will enrich your life, & appreciate the true VALUE/s of life...
just don't waste your life. People with strong hands, hearts & minds have so much GOOD work to do!
2007-03-18 06:27:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends what you think your life is; is it the place you live it or you as a person, or the friends and relatives that sorround you? It may also be a case of loneliness. But If you want to love yourself, you have to find out what exactly you love about yourself. Sit down and write on a piece or paper what you like about yourself. That's what I did. Set some goals for yourself too and plan to achieve them!
2007-03-17 12:51:29 · answer #3 · answered by Amil Khassim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try finding the good things about where you are.
Try looking up the history and events.
Every place on earth has an interesting fact waiting to be discovered
2007-03-17 03:18:01 · answer #4 · answered by Bruce L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just look at the TV, on the news you will see things worse than you can imagine! Make the changes to your life that you need to. Why are you so unhappy? Deal with the answers!
2007-03-17 03:03:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Understand that, in-spite of your daily experiences you live in a loving universe. And, all the forces are here to assist and support you.
Be grateful for the friends that you have, be grateful for the closeness of family.
Each day find something to be grateful for!
For example: "I am grateful for all the wonderful people in my life that challenge me to think differently."
Say it to yourself enough times you'll begin to see things differently---each day write a statement of gratitude---it will change your attitude!
Good luck!
2007-03-17 03:47:52 · answer #6 · answered by FunkyMcNasty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel alone - We are everywhere - knowing that can really help you - sad but true - Can you visit a thearpist ? I think your just a little stuck with your emotions right now --- I believe it will work it's way out - Give it time
2007-03-17 04:47:23 · answer #7 · answered by pattijohughes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
redefine your idea of love-noones life is perfect, but try to make it as close as possible. you may have a better life than what you think
2007-03-17 03:02:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can get out and get more friends.If you are married or have a girlfriend you can take her out on a romantic date to a fancy restaurant take her shopping.Go to the movies with your friends.Try that and if it doesn't work I will give you more ideas.
2007-03-17 03:17:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take up bridge building
2007-03-17 03:02:59 · answer #10 · answered by FIUIRIP 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋