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i feel like us women fall for the same mistakes over and over een when it comes to picking out a man? why why

2007-03-16 19:50:21 · 13 answers · asked by mickie1108 3 in Entertainment & Music Polls & Surveys

im not a man!! it that im tired of my friend crying to me about all these guys and they tell me no more but they fall right back into it!!!

2007-03-16 20:01:38 · update #1

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I had to laugh at the answer that said you're a man now, but I won't kick you out of the ladies club because you view many women falling for the same mistakes.

But seriously, many women that repeat patterns have reasons for it.

Some are insecure and don't know their own value, so they settle for whatever feels good at the time in order to 'be in love'. This can even lead to caregiving for another for the returned appreciation and love they want to feel.

Some think they want a 'bad boy' until they get them and decide they want to change them. (note: never date a man to change him, date a man because you already like who he IS)

Some don't have a plan for themselves, so they cling to a plan that someone else has placed before them, and they depend on that relationship too much.

And believe it or not, some are really looking for a copy of their father, as in 'how they remember a relationship was when they were growing up',whether it was a good example of a balanced relationship or not.

I don't think it is ignorance completely, but they still need to know who they are first before 'becoming a pair'.

Picking out a man? Well, it's not like buying produce, you can't thump them on their melon to see if they are good or not. Dating many people would be key, in my opinion, to find what your comfort is, what you really value in another person, and what you value in a relationship.

Raise your standards to fit your lifestyle comfortably, and don't settle for less..

2007-03-16 20:15:51 · answer #1 · answered by Craptacular Wonderment 6 · 2 0

I have no idea why you generalize so, i have not made the same mistake over and over.... some women do but i count myself out of this with me it's once bitten twice shy where i'm concerned..... so if you are making the same mistakes you really need to have a word with yourself, and change the bait you are putting out there.

2007-03-16 19:57:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3 0

screw you for saying females are dumb!!!!! stfu!!!!
My answer:
There are 2 kinds of female: one have a brains ( genius and smart) and one have brains but don't use it and actually think there beautiful but not. There 2 kind of female attitudes: generous, selfless, passionate and nice and one is bitching around like they everything but not,,, whore. The are 2 kind of attitude of a female towards man: one is compassionate but needs to know her man and fall in love with him if he cries (in a true way) and one is a female who easily get fooled.

2007-03-16 20:12:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I haven't .so are you calling every woman dumb? you may want to rephrase that. I've never gone out with the same type of guy twice honey. I learn from MY mistakes

2007-03-16 19:59:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Cos you're not learning from your mistakes. Life teaches you the same lessons until you have learnt them :)
Dont class all females together honey !

2007-03-16 19:55:28 · answer #5 · answered by Praxis 5 · 1 0

thats just it , you think females are dumb , which tells me you're that your quite stupid . Stupid people tend to do the same mistakes over and over and over .

2007-03-16 19:57:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2 1

coz we women were a sperm once that came from a man!
its the root which is making the stem dumb!
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2007-03-16 19:57:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1 2

That is a stereotype...and luckily I don't fall in that category.

2007-03-16 19:53:48 · answer #8 · answered by Green-Eyed Gal 7 · 1 0

We're not dumb we just meet the wrong people and people are snakey and shady.
=)

2007-03-16 19:55:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Okay...you're a man.

2007-03-16 19:53:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 6 0

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