I'm not saying I'm going to hit that, but when I walk around and I see a cute 12 year old I don't think, ewww disgusting. I think she's kind of cute and if I spent some time with her she'd be fun to talk to, play with, cuddle with, and everything else you do with someone you like/date/love/girlfriend.
Of course it's illegal, but it isn't sick because she has all the same features as an older girl. It's not like she's deformed or missing something. She has breasts and probably other womanly parts.
So why are you so mad when I say, Hey, she's cute, I'd like to hold her hand and whisper in her ear, smell her hair and buy her a hamburger. Is it because she'd be so flattered that an "older" guy would like her that she just couldn't resist me and would do whatever I say, while someone her own age she'd tell them no way? Or would she be scared of me and do what I say and I'd be like forcing her even if I wasn't trying to?
Am I supposed to think she's disgusting? If so, why?
2007-03-16 19:35:37 · 9 answers · asked by Banned4life 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
This is purely hypothetical. I don't have anyone in mind or have any plans in effect. Just based on past experiences and situations I've heard of.
2007-03-16 19:36:57 · update #1
Why do I have to fully connect to someone emotionally to spend time and get to know them? Do you fully connect emotionally to everyone you date right away, and drop them if you don't? Why can't I give her The Hobbit to read and then discuss it with her?
2007-03-16 20:20:42 · update #2
Well I feel your pain I know how it feels to be lonely. And desperations lead to thoughts people would think are ****** up haha. But come on man try to keep your dating to at least no younger then three years. Twelve is way too young for you and even if you find them cute you would never get along emotionally. I’m seventeen and I barely get along with fifteen year old girls emotionally. Jesus I can't imagine that you would have to be almost retarded to get along with them. Well not along with them but to fully connect with them emotionally.
2007-03-16 19:59:22 · answer #1 · answered by Beaverscanttalk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you don't have to think she's disgusting, but you should view her as a child and not a woman. Technically, the body may be ready, but the mind isn't. Someone that young just isn't ready to handle such an adult situation, and would end up mentally screwed up. She's way too vulnerable, and way too easy to manipulate.
2007-03-16 19:45:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No you aren't supposed to think she is disgusting, just keep your hormones in check so some parent/s aren't picking you out of a lineup. It is not proper to even talk to girls younger than 16 years old at your age. Do not touch her, as you will be breaking the law.
2007-03-16 19:39:06 · answer #3 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't have the same features as an older girl because a 12 y/o is still growing in those areas and is still maturing. You'll be thinking about sex while she'll be thinking about Sponge Bob.
2007-03-16 19:40:21 · answer #4 · answered by Cardiophobia <3 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
wrong at least 18 keep it legal some states say16 but if something happens and a parent want to push its just like doing something with a 12 year old
2007-03-16 19:45:30 · answer #5 · answered by milifis frikngret 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A 12 YR. OLD DOES NOT HAVE THE MENTALITY OF A GROWN WOMEN.THIER JUDGEMENT IS NOT AS GOOD AS AN ADULTS ESPEACIALY WHEN IT CONCERNS A RELATIONSHIP OR SEX.SHE IS ONLY A CHILD.LET HER BE A CHILD.HAVE YOU EVER VIEWED "TO CATCH A PREDATOR"?
2007-03-16 19:54:54 · answer #6 · answered by MARSHALL B 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think u looking for a daughter or a young sister but she is way to young at least 15
2007-03-16 19:40:02 · answer #7 · answered by la naca 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO NI99A SLAP YO SELF
2007-03-16 19:44:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
No its NOT.
2007-03-16 19:39:17 · answer #9 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋