2007-03-16 19:30:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ask yourself why doesn't she want to have sex. Is she too tired? If yes help lighten the load. Is she aggravated with you? Sit down and work out the problem. Is she not feeling attractive? Make her feel beautiful. Women are more emotionally charged find out why your not having sex as often as you like then do something to fix it. Just remember to be reasonable. Expecting your wife to have sex 3 to 5 times a week is alright but not 3 to 5 times a day.
2007-03-16 19:52:27 · answer #1 · answered by candy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's married life, big guy. It's the rule rather than the exception. You learn that love is a lot more than sex and that your wife has needs that differ from yours. You learn maturity, compromise, tolerance, and - hopefully - you become wise.
A good sexual relationship has more to do with communication than it does anything else. You may have already talked the topic to death, but have you really been listening, or just trying to get your point across? Try listening next time and not being defensive or desperate. You'll get a lot more of what you want if you give a lot more of what is needed by your wife. It may never equal what you need, but that's what builds character.
Good luck...and welcome to the club.
2007-03-17 02:46:20 · answer #2 · answered by SafetyDancer 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It amazes me that the women on this site are making assumptions that this guy is not romantic ot not doing enough around the house. Have you guys sat back to think that maybe he does all these things and she's still is not interested. Don't you girls think that if all a guy had to do was sweet talk his wife and do more chores, that he wouldn't do that. It's far more complicated.
Yes, I speak from experience.
2007-03-17 16:22:54 · answer #3 · answered by tHEwISE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Internet porn and jerking off go hand in hand together...excuse the pun.
Eventually, you are going to have to have a sit down with your wife regarding the sex area, afterall, contrary to popular opinion that is part of her job of being a wife. If she wasn't up for it , why did she get married???
2007-03-17 02:50:20 · answer #4 · answered by huckleberry1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well come on now, u were Casonova enough at one point to get her in the sack with u , time to revert back to the old charm and do what it takes to get your woman back in bed with u.. be romantic, playful..loving, attentive, etc, all the things u once were back in the day, and more then likely she'll come around sorry but.. "hey babe why dont u ride me" doesnt count as romance..
2007-03-17 02:51:39 · answer #5 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Spice things up--look at a sex toy site together, pick one out and try it. maybe it will help her become more excited and interested in sex again.
http://www.edenfantasys.com/Default.aspx?pcode=294
2007-03-17 03:44:43 · answer #6 · answered by Sydney 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This all depends. Are you trying to seduce her or just "screw" her, so to speak. The nicer you are to your wife, the more willing she'll be to "thanking" you. Trust me, you'll both win. :)
2007-03-17 02:41:50 · answer #7 · answered by VHagerty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wash the pots, do the laundry, vacuum the living room carpet, scrub the kitchen floor and bathroom --- you will be amazed at how much more receptive she will be!
2007-03-17 09:14:18 · answer #8 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to her about it.....there could be something bothering her that you need to talk about. If nothing else, see if you can find a compromise between what you want and what she wants!
2007-03-17 03:31:23 · answer #9 · answered by idog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll ask her after she finishes going me this BJ. She sure knows how to suck a mean c o c k.
2007-03-17 09:33:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋