So wehenever my roommate and i go out to a club or a bar, she is always getting hit on and dealing out her number to guys that actually pursue her the morning after. I get soooo jealous of her almost to the point of resentment because I hardly ever get hit on, how can I get over this jealousy?
2007-03-16 19:20:12 · 10 answers · asked by Violin2 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sounds to me like you have self esteem issues, please don't feel jealous of this girl, there is a guy out there just especially for you, and he will find you as soon as you stop looking, that doesn't mean that you can't go out and have some fun in the meantime, there is always someone more beautiful than our there so be happy with who you are and be beautiful on the inside and it will show on the outside, goodluck!
2007-03-16 19:46:53 · answer #1 · answered by Debbie's angel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Distraction. Watch her. Do some comparison. Is it all looks that brings them on or are you doing something different. Do you want to be the same way she is or do you like the way you are? Sometimes guys may see you as too serious or level headed to have a short encounter. What do you want? Quality or quantity? When you are busy analyzing you don't get as caught up in the heat of the competition.
2007-03-16 19:30:07 · answer #2 · answered by Maia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life sometimes feels like a popularity contest...We all want to be noticed but then we have to see what they are noticing..Is it our smile,,our eyes or the way we dress ??? Are we protraying who we truly are inside, or are we being totally opposite of who we are to get attention?? Good questions to always ask ourselves..I lived all my life a jealous person and hun let me tell you,,it will destroy every relationship you ever get involved with..I lost female friends cuz I couldnt keep up with their styles of dress,,or I wasnt goin to dress like that becuz i was not what they played like they were...I dressed with morals they didnt..You have to be who you were created to be..The right guys will notice you and I would rather have one right guy than a 1000 wrong ones...How about you? God bless you in all you do and just remember,,you are someone special to someone ,,so hold your head up and know that you will find the right guy at the right time and you will be happy and it will all be very real...
2007-03-16 19:27:36 · answer #3 · answered by glowworm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we all get jealous when a friend or family member does well than we do but then you just have to let that be and try to improve yourself. this may sound stupid but try hitting on guys in a smooth way. for example, in a innocent way, pretend your asking for assistance or something. your goal is to grab their attention mentally and not physically. once you get that far, its all up to you to call the shots on how you want to be with that person. i hope this helped. good luck mami.
2007-03-16 20:02:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh dear amy,
dont think like that. u sud have ur own confident alongwith the well dress. for this u can see ur roommate also that when she gone out how she confident. think positive and be confident and its sure u will get more hits then others.
urs frnd
2007-03-16 20:07:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay first of all you have to dress more sexy and have a little showing wearing a skirt that is too small and change everything of u like go to the beauty salon and change ur hair style and do something new to ur personallity also
2007-03-16 19:24:26 · answer #6 · answered by froggy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's not yet the right time for you. Just wait and it'll come to you
2007-03-16 19:23:50 · answer #7 · answered by xuxs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TRY and go out with some one else.
2007-03-16 19:30:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dont see it as important and look at her flaws.
2007-03-16 19:27:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
strip
2007-03-16 19:23:45 · answer #10 · answered by darth_dylan_9 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋