guys, when you just become a boyfriend to your girlfriend, what do you like her to do for you? what cause you to feel good and go into deeper relationship? anything that you would give warns? how do I tell my boyfriend that I really like him to call me more often?
Thank you.
2007-03-16 19:09:02 · 7 answers · asked by Caring Girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It sounds a general quesiton, but it is very difficult, and really don't know how to tell him that would not harm the relationship.
Girls need more frequent contact to feel the relationship is assured, how about for guys?
2007-03-16 19:20:40 · update #1
we get a along "very well" when we are hanging out, but because we don't live together and busy at work, I wish to know if you could give me effective tips that I can do to improve more frequent communication.
2007-03-16 19:40:34 · update #2
A person's initial interest is dictated by cultural and personal values and interests, just like some like skinny or some like fat.
Your 1st question is most basic from a human animal standpoint. Basically, we are no different from any other animal that desire to procure its species. Guys want sex, women want families. But humans are a more complex animal. We need to bond and connect to our partners. We are most connected to those partners we share something in common with. If you were an atheist, you wouldn't be the best match for a devout christian, would you?
As for the second part of your question, if you like something that your partner does, you need to share this with them in a form of compliment. As in, "I really like it when you ..." Other than that, you could lay subtle hints like, "Can you call me later about...?" Make an excuse for some subject matter.
Get this: people connect more often when you let them talk. Sharing of feelings, thoughts, or emotions build a deeper relationship that 's built on the trust that they won't be judged on what they've shared with you. This is the same relationship you have with friends, right? The same applies for love interest. Good luck. M-
2007-03-16 19:32:22 · answer #1 · answered by Marko Polo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flip answer? Boobs. Real answer? Hormones and serotonin. When you're in the early stages of a relationship, your brain produces extra serotonin when you're around your girlfriend. This makes you feel happy, sometimes even giddy. So you want to be around her as much as possible, simply because you feel better around her. And why does your brain do this to you? Hormones. It makes a lot more sense once it's happened to you.
2016-03-29 02:27:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want him to call you more often but trust me, TRUST ME... that will push him away because you're going to seem needy. That's a turn off. Now what you can do for him... I don't know how old you are but if you're at least 18 I'd say sex (protected sex). Most guys can't get enough. If you're younger than absolutely do not listen to that advice. In fact, NO SEX AT ALL. Wait until you're older. Just smile, have fun, be positive and don't act needy.
2007-03-16 19:15:24 · answer #3 · answered by Jim 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Americans are that way, but just tell him that you'd like him to call you often
There's nothing wrong about it.
Guys should care about their girls, right?
It's not a matter of what you'd like him to do for you, it's a RESPONSABILITY, and Americans don't know about it.
Just tell him you NEED him to do so.
2007-03-16 19:16:18 · answer #4 · answered by SongMaker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whow this is a really general question and of course every body is different.
Speaking for my self, a guy, I am really a attention seeker and i luv for her to contact me, think of me.
Just tell your boyfriend that you like for him to phone you...be honest.
2007-03-16 19:16:47 · answer #5 · answered by David R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
making him feel like he feels wanted and needed.
2007-03-16 19:12:49 · answer #6 · answered by jayblunt22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
two words baybe, stripping and sex mmmmmmmmmmmmmm
2007-03-16 19:11:37 · answer #7 · answered by darth_dylan_9 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋