2007-03-16 18:54:51 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Leave him...you deserve better
2007-03-16 20:45:33 · answer #1 · answered by Sydney 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most husbands have cheated, therefore it is an impossibility that a husband cannot be in a loving marriage and phuck another woman. If that were the case, the divorce rate would be over 90%. Husbands have had sex outside of marriage throughout history, it would be a little naive to say that all of those husbands did not love their wives, right? Isn't that selling the wives of the world very short?
Do you really think that because my penis has a momentary lapse in reason that I would not love my wife anymore, that's ridiculous. If my wife left me I'd be a wreck, that's probably not going to stop me from tagging som asss if the perfect opportunity arose.
2007-03-17 03:02:30 · answer #2 · answered by huckleberry1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the husband cheats on his wife, it is not a love marriage. It is no marriage at all. It is a joke.
What should the wife do? Put an end to the joke and get a divorce.
2007-03-17 01:58:30 · answer #3 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter how many apologies or bouquets of flowers he gives you, nothing makes up for infidelity...NOTHING. Men and women need to draw an imaginary line in their mindof what will be allowed in their relationships, whether it be friendship, family, co-workers or romantic. You must also have definite consequences to someone stepping over that line.
If you define a marriage as two people cohabitating together, then I guess yours is fine. But first, you have to ask yourself what your definition of a marriage is, then compare it to your husbands.
Most people, men and women alike, will agree that monogamy is one of the most important traits of a stable marriage. If you do not agree, then do nothing. But, if you are asking this question and are serious, you already know the answer. :)
2007-03-17 02:35:30 · answer #4 · answered by VHagerty 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he was cheating before the marriage the wife should have had the backbone to leave him standing at the altar rather than marry him.
2007-03-17 02:40:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A man/woman who cheats on their mate does not love them at all...The woman should file adultery charges with the courts and divorce him..There are many real men in this world who believes in the sanctity of marriage...And will treat you like you deserve to be treated..With respect...
2007-03-17 02:17:44 · answer #6 · answered by glowworm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
short and sweat, it is hard to trust them again and it takes a long time to get over it. same as if it was a wife cheating. you never really know, because they just learn to get better at cheating man or woman,same telling a lie you have to tell another one to cover the first one and so on...
2007-03-17 02:10:36 · answer #7 · answered by james b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to decide if u can put up with the cheating, if this is what u want from life. if it isn't than u have to do what is best for u. no one should have to share a husband, and there is always the possibility he will leave u for one of these girls.
2007-03-17 07:21:50 · answer #8 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Understanding, knowing husband is lover boy, acceptance, and philosophized husband is handsome that many are appealed to,etc., rather than wailing with grief. After all why woman marry the man he knows is a womanizer.
2007-03-17 02:03:37 · answer #9 · answered by wilma m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either attempt marriage counseling or get a divorce. And maybe both, if the counseling doesn't solve the problems.
2007-03-17 02:00:17 · answer #10 · answered by bubbleblunder 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's still cheating, then that means he doesn't care about his vows, your feelings or having a real marriage. Therefore, your marriage is a sham. Might as well divorce.
2007-03-17 02:05:40 · answer #11 · answered by Cassandra G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋