what does it mean when you and your husbin anrent getting along and all we do is argue?

Question

me and my husbin has been together for 6 years

Answer 1

It means a need to compromise. You have been together for a long time - I'm sure you dated before you married. Try to get together, talk, see things on a common ground. It's worth it to try & get to know him again - maybe he'll know & love you on another level.

Answer 2

It means that maybe you are spending too much time together or not enough,,the first 100 years are the hardest after that it's all smooth sailing
hahaha I hope I made you smile atleast b/c
I don't have the right answer,,every marriage has it's ups and downs.Try letting go when he is arguing with you just give him a great big hug and kiss,,sometimes arguments start over nothing
and you get so frustrated and then 10-20 min later you act like nothing happened.Be strong and
let go from time to time you will feel better in the end!!!

Answer 3

It means you've lost the art of communication. Communication is talking with compromise, acceptance that your opinion is not necessarily always the right opinion, and realizing that raising your voice drowns out what the other person is saying making it a one sided conversation. Try listening as well as talking to(not at) each other. The best way to start any conversation with your husband or wife is to say, "I love you very much, but we need to talk about ________________________."

Answer 4

It means that you two are not acting like two mature adults. You may consider on reading these two great books called, "The Proper Care and Feeding of Marriage" and "The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands".

Pray together, stay together.

Answer 5

you need to get counseling to deal with why this is going on
and then do what needed to bring the love back in this.