been married for almost 2 years, dated for 4... curios... need more, how to get started with another one on the side??
2007-03-16 18:47:34 · 27 answers · asked by mamita009 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Take off your wedding ring, head to a local bar with a low cut shirt. Go have sex at the guys place. Make it clear you don't want a relationship. Don't get too attached. You're really a ****** ***** if you do this though. Do the right thing and divorce your current man now or get some counceling. Maybe you can talk and get it out in the open what's missing in the relationship.
2007-03-16 18:53:26 · answer #1 · answered by Jim 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you find yourself contemplating an affair, you only have one mature decision to make: how do you tell your spouse in the most dignified and respectful way that it's time for a divorce.
Too many times, people assume that their feelings come before the marriage. When you get married, it's a partnership; you can't pick and choose which to confer with your spouse about and which to say, "Screw it, I'm more important than our relationship as a whole".
Having sexual thoughts for another isn't a crime, but acting on it should be. Be an adult about it and give your spouse a chance to choose what he wants to do with the information; at least you've been honest and up front with him, like you would expect in return. :)
2007-03-17 02:15:02 · answer #2 · answered by VHagerty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are seeking a 2nd man in your relationship and only have been married for 2 years I think you need to re-evaluate your relationship as it would appear as if you are falling out of love with your man and just don't know it yet or just bored or maybe you didn't love him.
The first step is to think less of yourself and you will end up being brave enough to be in two relationships at the same time and end up regretting sleeping with another man while with your husband.
2007-03-17 01:53:30 · answer #3 · answered by Indian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My oh My oh MY; aren't we the high and mighty.
Married and want to cheat already huh. Do you
think that decent people will really tell you how to
cheat when you know already. It's people like you
that give marriage a bad rap. Best thing for you to
do is divorce since you know nothing of marriage
and do what you want with whom you want and
with as many as you want. That way maybe one
day you will realize that you really don't know what
it is you really want in life. Have fun anyway.
2007-03-17 20:18:49 · answer #4 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why be married if youre going to cheat?Just file for divorce and go on the internet on adult friend finder and you can have all the guys you want, all the diseases, mental cases heartaches etc.Your husband will eventually find out your cheating and divorce you anyway, may as well get that out of the way first.Poor guy.
2007-03-17 01:54:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, grow up and stop thinking everything revolves around your desires. Second, get a divorce. Third, go sow your wild oats. Fourth, don't ask questions you know the answer to. Fifth, don't pretend to love someone again. Sixth, don't get married again until you have a realization that the world doesn't care about your desires and no one respects a liar. Seventh, please don't have children.
2007-03-17 02:09:13 · answer #6 · answered by Cassandra G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your story all but short, is sad.
May-be you are still young.
Why did you get married in the first place?
Not fair on him if you play around, I suggest think it over very carefully, if you are not happy, then divorce and dont get married for a long time.
2007-03-17 01:58:44 · answer #7 · answered by David R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go 2 hell !!!!!!!!! get yourself tested and seek some psychological help caz you sound REALLY Pathetic, Nasty , Desperate, Freak, UnFaithful(dogs are faithful and you are even worse than an animal) , unfortunate and don;t deserve a pious relationship called "marriage" !!! Leave your poor husband alone so he can find someone loyal and BETTER than you - A sincere woman not a slut!
2007-03-17 02:25:48 · answer #8 · answered by Broken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say consult your husband. Clearly he's the kind of guy you like (or else I imagine you wouldn't be married to him) so he probably has some decently nice friends. Just ask him to introduce you to some of them, and then maybe in the interest of fairness you can introduce him to some of your friends.
2007-03-17 01:52:03 · answer #9 · answered by The Lobe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose a sleazy divorce attorney. Call him up. Tell him that you are broke but will be in need of a divorce fairly soon and offer to pay him in trade. That way when your husband decides to get rid of your whoring ***, you'll already have the guy on retainer.
2007-03-17 01:51:38 · answer #10 · answered by bubbleblunder 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋