these girls hate me for no apparent reason cause they think i said stuff about them that i didnt and they wont believe me when i say i didnt do that stuff, so it just got around that ony my b-day theyre gonn pants me,push me and thd stair well, and then put a sign on my back saying im ugly so kick me, what do i do?! im scared.
2007-03-16 18:39:35 · 9 answers · asked by deanna3247 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
sorry im writing bad, im just really nervous. ok so if u didnt understand that, theyre gonna push me down the stairwell in school, pants me, and then stick notes on my back saying im ugly so kick me.
2007-03-16 18:40:32 · update #1
go to school counselor...pushing you down the stairs can result in hospitalization...this is serious..peer mediation is needed!
2007-03-16 18:44:58 · answer #1 · answered by britlynn18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wether you want to or not. Talk to an adult. Talk to the principal, talk to a teacher, talk to someone at your school who is an adult .
Tell them Everything. Tell them how you feel as well.
You may not like this advice, yet ask yourself, what are you more afraid of, getting the punishment (and perhaps dangerous continuous punishment) from these people,
Or , fearing what other s will think because you had help from teachers and principal.
What s more important survival or not?
I certainly Hope you choose to talk to a teacher or principal.
The more adults you tell around the school, the safer you will be.
If it gets real bad, continue to tell the adults your fears .
They will help.
And if That doesn t work. Then don t go to school.
Either way, some adult Should listen to you and help.
If all that fails (which i d be surprised if it failed), yet if it does, then call a help line .
Please, do consider talking to an adult in your school.
I had experiences in school, which i luckily avoided thanks to my decisions.
Remember, image doesn t matter, because when school is over , at the age of 18 , you join the world of all ages in the workplace. These people are effected by the rules of law. And will not bully.
Plus look at it this way too, these people now, who bug you, may just be interviewed by you in the future , for a job, and asking you to hire them.
Then they will regret how they treated you.
2007-03-16 18:49:15 · answer #2 · answered by Aaron M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ure really that scared i wld tell a parent or a teacher. u might be called a snitch but its better to be on the safer side. but then again they might be tlking a lot of nothin and just tryin to scare u so dont let them see u sweat, girl! be confident and let them know ure not afraid(evn if u r) OR surround urself w/ a group of ure friends. its not likely they girls will beat u up if ure w/ a large group(who cld possibly back u up) but if u reallly feel like ure in danger tell an adult.
2007-03-16 19:00:38 · answer #3 · answered by kahlia10 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, tell your parents, and if they don't go to the school and sort it out, go straight to the principals office and let them know what's going on, nobody can help you unless you help yourself by letting the authorities know, sure they might try and threaten you again but stand up for yourself and tell them that they have been reported and if any harm comes to you that they will be the first ones blamed, bullying in schools is taken very seriously know, if need be go to the police if nobody else will listen, you have the right to feel safe, please get help if you can't stand up to them alone, be safe and goodluck!
2007-03-16 18:57:39 · answer #4 · answered by Debbie's angel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls eh? Well get up in there face and freakin personal. Say like" I didn't say anything about u for all I care do it. "
Wear a belt!
2007-03-16 18:47:51 · answer #5 · answered by spartan1820 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be scared, tell them to get lost. If they start some crap with you, be strong and get in their face and tell them off. Tell them exactly how u feel.
2007-03-16 18:43:50 · answer #6 · answered by linda l 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
report what you heard to a teacher or fmaily. if you didnt say it then you didnt say it. and if they dont believe you then their just b!#(^s. if they do it they'll get in trouble.
2007-03-16 18:45:42 · answer #7 · answered by hi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they think usaid that why dont say itthen kick there ***. srry anger problems no on messes w/me so well... kick there *** n-e-way
2007-03-16 18:49:00 · answer #8 · answered by dragon_fanatic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id fight them.
If you cant convince them to believe you then fight them.
2007-03-16 18:44:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋