i have a friend who went overseas 15 year ago. prior to him going we were not on speaking terms. i have not heard from him until 11 years after. he came back to visit and contacted him . we had a bit of closure and sort out the communication barrier. i was adamant to call first after he left. anyways he contacted me and we spoke for about 30 minutes (overseas) he called again for about the same time. i would call after, we communicated by text messaging also. it reached a point where i was the onky one making the contacts. one day i emailed me and he replied by saying he does not have anytime to read my messages and he thought we spoke about everything we had to say. I am confused bcuz he was the one who contacted me in the initial stage and we would talk about just everything. we were not upset with each other at any time. what do you think. should i contact him again or let it go?
2007-03-16 18:38:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I wouldn't contact him nor would I let it go. Let him contact you but don't wait around & sit by the phone waiting for him to call. More than likely, he has a girlfriend and she noticed the calls being made to you & from you and asked him to stop. So it put him on the spot: having his friend back or a relationship with his girlfriend. Contacting him may cause more problems but don't let your friendship go at this point. If you haven't heard from him in 6 months or longer, than contact him and ask him if he still wants to be your friend if not to be upfront with you about it. Once a true friend at heart always a true friend at heart.
2007-03-16 18:53:27 · answer #1 · answered by ~Sheila~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
reasons i would not be friends with somebody: If the guy is a recurring liar If the guy is an lively member of the KKK If the guy is a damaging member of society who's basically out for themselves and would not care who they injury If the guy is a baby or animal molester, abuser or killer. I fairly have standards and everyone who desires to be my buddy has to even have standards. there are specific situations that stick to to friendship and basically because of the fact all of us's are distinctive does not mean they are able to't be a sturdy buddy. I fairly have have been given friends from everywhere in the rustic and that all of them meet my standards of being a "buddy".
2016-12-19 07:23:42 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be best in your own interest that you should stop contacting him. He said what he had to say and he doesn't have time to respond to your email messages. Give him an opportunity to contact you first. If he was really your friend, he'll do that. In the meantime, focus on your well-being and enjoy life to it's fullest. I hope my advice helps you. Good luck.
2007-03-16 18:53:00 · answer #3 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go. He's met someone who he doesn't think will believe you're only friends. He tries to cut you out without telling you why, so it's a romantic interest. What was the original problem? Of course he could be going to jail and sparing your feelings.
2007-03-16 18:58:07 · answer #4 · answered by jelesais2000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait for him to contact you. But don't hold your breath it could be another number of years. Go on with your life, if you hear from him againn great, if not oh well.
2007-03-16 18:46:36 · answer #5 · answered by mia w 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let things be...
let it stay the way it is now..
and besides, he's just a friend...right?
chill`
2007-03-16 18:45:28 · answer #6 · answered by Crab` 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go. Good riddance!!!
2007-03-16 18:43:29 · answer #7 · answered by Sven B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.If she is good friend of mine i will try find out what is the matter and solve it as soon as possible.
2007-03-16 18:43:11 · answer #8 · answered by kamika 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋