how many people really like anal?

Question

me and my lady want to try it but im wooried

Answer 1

Quite a few do. Some people absolutely adore it, others like it every once in a while, some people are ambivalent about it but do it for their partners. Men and women both can enjoy the pleasures that anal stimulation brings.

I myself like a little regular anal play; I'm trying to work up to bigger and better things, but so far it's just a little experimentation with something small.

Don't be worried; if you and your lady want to try it, look up some good resources, study them, and then go about it slowly, with lots of patience and care. Just remember tons of lube and to go slow. Maybe these resources can help:

http://www.sexuality.org/authors/morin/analrule.html

http://www.analsexyes.com/

http://www.burntpickle.com/videos/anal-sex-tips/

http://sexuality.about.com/od/analplay/Anal_Play.htm

http://www.seductioninsider.com/sex_tips/anal_sex.shtml

http://honeymoons.about.com/od/analsex/Anal_Sex_Analingus_Anal_Lovemaking.htm

http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/31814/a_beginners_guide_to_anal_sex.html

http://www.askmen.com/love/vanessa/28_love_secrets.html

http://sexuality.about.com/od/analplay/ht/htprostate.htm

http://sexuality.about.com/od/sexinformation/a/bob.htm

Hope that helps and good luck!

Answer 2

ok just want to prefrace this that I personaly dont like anal but in a study 60 percent of women liked anal. I am not sure about the gay community but most of the people who answered that survey were strait women...just something for thought...that is just the people who admitted it on paper.
Sex is natural....Anal is harmless all you need to do before you do it is make sure that the person reciveing goes to the restroom before hand and take it slow....Come on ppl dont go eww it has most likly crossed your mind at one point or another human curiosity is natural and so is sex...it doesnt matter where what position or what entery way it is still natural ....most americans view sex in such a negitive and represed way....come on try everything that is safe once...or you'll miss out alot stop living in steriotypes

Answer 3

I am a married woman. It took me 4 years and a night of drinking to get me to try it. It hurt at first, but I soon realised that it was quite pleasureable. I can even 0rgasm from it if I am on top.

Use a condom and lots of lube. Get her really really turned on first. Lots of foreplay, and maybe even vaginal sex first. If you are both ok with it, try using a well-lubed and smooth nailed finger first. Be really gentle and tell her that if she wants you to stop, you will. For me personally, it is the entry that hurts. Once it is ALL the way in, it feels good, he just cant thrust in and out. Be VERY careful. If she gets a tear or cut in her anus, it could get really infected and make her really sick.

Answer 4

As a gay man who is also top, I can tell you, from my perspective, I quite enjoy it.

I am told that many women also enjoy it, but take it slow and easy, use lots of patience, lube and maybe a toy or two.

Enjoy!

Answer 5

I have introduced many women to anal sex..
Virtually every one of them came to enjoy it
with me on a regular basis and to have anal orgasms.
It takes a good careful patient tender lover and lots
of preparation and extra lube...And a few drinks the first time..

Answer 6

lots of people do. lots.

Answer 7

not me