what would be some good sexual dirty talk?

Question

how do i get a girl turned-on

Answer 1

My top 12 tips:

1) Compliment her. Tell her she's beautiful, sexy, talk about her specific parts and how perfect and lovely they are. And remember to make it both about all of her- it's fine to focus on her body, but throwing in some other stuff "You're so sweet.", "I love your smile, the way you laugh, etc." are important, too. Don't forget to tive her these compliments while having sex, too- it's not just something you do at the beginning, but at the start, middle, and end.

2) Tell her she turns you on, and say it often. "Mmm, you've got me so hot.", "You turn me on so much, baby.", and "Look what you're doing to me!" are all good ways to show her how she affects you.

3) Ask her what she wants/what feels good. The best sexual dirty talk, the kind people always seem to leave out, is the communication about what they want. Let her tell you what she wants, and then go and do it!

4) You can ask sort of descriptive-rhetorical questions. As you pleasure her, it's sort of fun to hear someone describing what they're doing, to add an extra layer of eroticism in your mind. So you can try things like "Do you like me touching you here? Like it when I rub your (insert hot title for whatever body part or action your doing here)?". She can moan, groan, or gasp in reply, or not reply at all. Plus, doing this is really nice because it opens up communication- she can tell you if she doesn't like it, so you can do it better.

5) Tease her. This is where the "I'm gonna . . ." phrases come in handy. Tell her what you're going to do and then tease her a little bit, ask her if she wants it, make her "beg" for it . . . if she seems to respond to that. It can be fun.

6) Talk into her ear. There's a quote somewhere that "Everything sounds dirty if it's wet enough!". Whispering erotically into someone's ear usually has a good effect for foreplay; something about the low tone of a whisper, the naughty secretiveness of it, your body so close, seems to do well. Of course, you'll want to be talking about something sexy or romantic . . . this doesn't exactly work when quoting multiplication tables.

7) Use names. This really depends on the girl; some like it, some don't. You might talk with her first and see how she feels about certain terms, so that you don't offend her during the act. Sometimes names like "sl*t" can up the ante during sex- she knows you don't mean it outside of the bedroom, but it makes her feel sexy and wanton to be called it in bed.

8) Say "I love you". Not surprisingly, romance can turn a woman on more than the most frequent of dirty sayings. Of course, this one only works- or only should work- if you really do love her. You don't want to be saying something that heavy and meaningful if you don't. Optimally, pick a time in the middle of some slow lovemaking, stare deep into her eyes (this really increases intimacy), and say it from the heart. In that circumstance, it really is a winner- it doesn't feel like when said before, because you want to get in her pants, or afterwards, as if to thank her for the sex, or at climax, again, like a thanks, but in the heat of the moment, consumed by real love and pleasure. She'll like it, I guarantee.

9) Swear. Again, this one depends on the girl. Some women enjoy using dirty words in the bedroom but not in real life, some like dirty words in both, some don't like them in either. But they definitely have a naughty factor involved, for the girl who responds to them- saying "I want to f*ck your brains out." sets a very different mood from "I want to have vigorous sex with you.". Use with caution (ask her beforehand).

10) Speak a different language. Some languages are just stereotypically seen as sexier, sweeter, more romantic. French is sensual, Italian is lusty, Spanish is undeniably laden with heat. Why not take advantage of it? You don't need to keep a dictionary nearby; just memorize a few phrases to whisper in her ear. She doesn't have to know the language, either; you say it (whispers are best), she asks you what it means, and you get to translate your sexy words. Of course, this can seem a little silly, but in general it should win you big points- you're seen as more worldly and suave, or, if she knows you're not, then you get extra props for mastering a few foreign words to impress her.

11) Evoke other situations. When we have sex, we can be in the moment, or somewhere else, but usually we're a mix of both. All sorts of things fly through our heads- most often fantasies- and you can take advantage of it. While you're having sex, you can relate it back to other things in order to get them in the forefront of her mind, and turn her on even more. "Remember that time at the lakehouse . . .?" said with a waggle of the eyebrows will bring all the face-blushing and flesh-tingling memories of the fun time at the lakehouse rushing back as you start on a session that will put the lakehouse one to shame. Of course, this only works if you have sexual history. But even without any, you can still evoke other ideas: "Remember that scene in the movie X? When X did Y to Z? Do you want me to do that to you?", you can ask, to get her mind rolling, or just describe a fantasy, either yours or hers. Just remember that the fantasies you describe aloud during sex should always involve her, no matter who else is there; you don't want to tell her about a fantasy with another woman! Optimally, if you want to really turn her on, you describe to her one of HER fantasies while you're in the heat of the moment.

12) Read her a sexy story. A good type of foreplay is to update the bedtime story to an X-rated adult version. Don your huskiest, sexiest voice and read her some good (emphasis on "good") quality erotica- not just something from Penthouse Letters, but something specifically chosen, that you know will turn her on. Ask her if she has any favorites- chances are that she has some scene in a dog-eared novel, if not a whole erotic library- that she often goes to for just that purpose. Hearing you read in that sexy voice will be a turn-on, the content of the story will definitely give you ideas; you can even start "acting out" what you read, within limits.

Just remember that everything you do depends on the girl and the situation; keep that in mind when you try my suggestions and whatever you do in general. If she seems to like sex quiet rather than with a lot of chatter, give up on the dirty talk idea. Some people just aren't good at it. Some people just don't like it. Others do, but feel self-conscious trying it. Expect some laughter; some sexy talk goes over better than others. In the end, just have fun with it.

Hope that helps.

Answer 2

I find that asking if things feel good and if she likes it works pretty well. Also, don't worry so much about actually saying things. Sometimes a grunt or a moan can say "This is so good, I don't even have words for it." Also try to communicate nonverbally. Make a face like you just have to have her, look at her like she's just the most delicious thing you have ever seen. It feels good to be looked at like that.

Answer 3

depends on the girl if I want my guy to talk dirty I want him to say things that I would normally get mad at him for saying. Ya know tell me he loves the way I taste and smell (of course not using those words) and tell me every dirty thing he wants to do to me just get creative tell her what you really want to do to her and what you like about her.

Answer 4

You say. Dam you fine, girl. Wanna knockboots now or do you want to get a sammich first.

Answer 5

not with dirty talk usually...at least not at first...just make her feel wanted and desirable

Answer 6

I'd love to help but I'm only really adept the other way round!!

Answer 7

Just say "Let me see your hangers and barn doors!"

Answer 8

smack her around, like her a/ss and then tell her she's the most beautiful hooker on the planet

Answer 9

tell her ur gona shove ur John Brown up her Rick James..
BIT CH!!!!!

Answer 10

son, you want the dating section for this question, not the gay and lesbian one......