Told her that she can't have her male friends who she has slept with. I didn't want to know them. She agreed not to keep in touch with them, but is clearly upset about it from time to time. She ran into her ex at the train station, and I walked up and she introduced the guy as a friend. Hours later she fessed up. What is the deal with this? Why is she so sensitive about seeing an ex of any kind. She says she wanted to remain friends with these people. i'm like WTF?
2007-03-16 17:55:58 · 3 answers · asked by Mike Polite 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Mike, you are very wise to continue with this ground rule. I mean it was set up before marriage, so she had the chance to say forget it. Why place a stumbling block at the feet of those we love? Sometimes we have to be wise for our less wise wives. People who have a short supply of friends will demand you change and let her continue with these guys. Consider the source! Would you take advice about porn addiction from Hugh Hefner? She can have new guy friends, or ones that she wasn't intimate with. Geez I hope there wasn't like tons of em!
2007-03-17 03:50:40 · answer #1 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You surely have women from your past. She does, too. Can't they just be friends of hers? Maybe you need to work on your trust issues a little more.
2007-03-17 09:42:32 · answer #2 · answered by mimegamy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are just friends...if you trust her then u should let her see them...besides if she was up to no good nothing will stop her from cheating on you one day
2007-03-17 08:50:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋