i have a problem that if i know something wrong or negatively about my classmates i cannot talk sweetly,but my friends tell negatively about others and apeak well with them.so i can't make much friends.i don't always express my feelings with my friends i feel that they may get hurt.but the people who express there become close .so how to make good friends?
2007-03-16 17:54:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you are a Good Person then certainly each good person would like to be your good friend. True Friendship means no selfishness between friends, just share sorrow and joys with each other is good friendship .
2007-03-16 20:26:28 · answer #1 · answered by deepaklbhatia 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It seems you are a person who is straight forward. If you feel something is wrong you will say its wrong on face. Its difficult for you to keep two different feelings in your heart and on your face. Remember nobody is perfect. But you should learn to tell others their negative points in sweetest possible. If you your friend is wrong, then tell him/her in a nice way not rudely.
Remember its not important that how many friend you have, its more important that you were a good friend to how many.
Good luck.
2007-03-17 19:30:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It seems you are a person who is straight forward. If you feel something is wrong you will say its wrong on face. Its difficult for you to keep two different feelings in your heart and on your face. Remember nobody is perfect. But you should learn to tell others their negative points in sweetest possible. If you your friend is wrong, then tell him/her in a nice way not rudely.
Remember its not important that how many friend you have, its more important that you were a good friend to how many.
Good luck.
2007-03-16 18:26:42 · answer #3 · answered by Sanjay C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A friend in need is a friend indeed. This is a famous proverb which advices us how to differentiate between a good friend and a friend(s). You should carefully observe who is thee one who always guides you through your difficulties and says you the right option. Always choose th one who is very caring, helping and affectionate towards you. You can even opt for a straight forward friend who immediately says the right thing may be good or it may hurt you, it can say what others sometime feel when you behave the same way with others..........!
2007-03-16 18:06:27 · answer #4 · answered by im_cool.smart 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do we always mean reliable friends are good friends?
We all need friends. But Q is who is good or bad. I feel it is your own feeling about someone to be good or bad. So let us talk about reliability of a person on whom one can lean on during crisis or to share some thought.
A reliable friend shall never turn his face away coz the moment the friend turns away he / she does not remain reliable.
However don't feel bad as it is a way of life to experience which everyone of us may face. But it gives you an opportunity to become stronger not weaker.
The thought of feeling bad will make you unwell mentally. Physical sickness is natural, so please don't ever make it incurable with the very thought of unreliable persons around you. Surely there will be one reliable person (Good Samaritan) available to you always as long as you believe it and in turn you never turn your face away when your turn comes. Be an example for others who may redefine themselves and shall not try to be bad to you. Keep on trying and feel the presence of GOD around you. It is easy to advise than to practise. So be it, never mind. If you try then you are doing good. Nobody can be perfect other than GOD.
2007-03-16 20:56:30 · answer #5 · answered by subhas chandra kar 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How to Make Real Friends :
- We All Need Friends
- Satisfying Our Hunger for Friendship
- Good Friends--Bad Friends
http://www.watchtower.org/e/20041208/article_01.htm
This^ is a series of on-line articles that will tell you what you re wanting to know.
2007-03-16 19:55:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why you are so particular to have good Friends? If yourself rate you as good first make friends and make them good! You have already got tips from your clever friends regarding how to make friends!
By not talking sweetly you will not make ordinary friends!
Understand Essenes of friendship, leadership ...so on!
Be prepared to lose, else you will fail to keep relation! Apparently you are eyeing gains from relation!
what impression "Apparently you are eyeing gains from relation" has given to you ?
I recommend you try to be a leader and be prepared "to give" and never "take anything" from others! That is you!
2007-03-16 18:26:12 · answer #7 · answered by kkr 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should try to talk sweetly with everyone.
a friend is one who solves all your problems.so you can share everything with them. if anyone is your real friend then they will not be hurt about your problem but they will help you to solve it.t
first think anyone as your friend.and make it sure that even they like you.then try to express all your feelings with them.invite he/she to your house.and even try to give suggetions if she/he has any problem.
be with your friend both in joys and sorrows.slowly you both will be very good friends.
2007-03-16 18:20:49 · answer #8 · answered by cool girl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
making good friends is hard nowadays but try 2 make friend by talking sweetly,politely& nicely.
2007-03-16 18:09:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
why inspit of asking this question you try to be nice and speak sweetly wit others .if you really wanna make good friends then the best way is to change yourself.and treat everyone with a big...........big.............big
SMILE ON YOUR FACE
2007-03-16 21:11:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋