High school.....she was new at school and we talk once. We talk about our school history and religion. She told me she lives with her grandmother and she goes to this big church. She told me she used to go to private school and she had to wear a dress and she didn't like it. So she now goes to the public school. She also said that our class feels like it's summer school. Are conversation ended when are 10 min break was over and back to work. I was leaving early right when break was over. She told me she was leaving in 2 hours. Anyways She said she was a loser and she walk back to class and I told her no your not. And that was it we both walk away and headed in different directions. I thought the conversation was going good, but she was doing most of the talking. Why do you think she called her self a loser for? She sound kinda serious when she called her self a loser. Maybe she thought I was bored with our conversation. Next day in class I was doing my work and this girl ask for a piece of gum and the girl im interested was sittin behind me and she ask for a piece too. I gave both of them a piece and the girl i like said i'm sorry for bothering you and I said that's alright. Which I know I shouldn't of said that. I was going to say something than she puts her head down and goes back to work. yesterday she was sick and I asked her if she was alright? she said yeah im fine.... so i left her alone after that... 20 minutes later... i look at her and asked her if she wants a piece of gum? she saids sure and she said thank you.... I talk to her again today. I didn't say much. I asked her if she was feeling better and she said yes... Then, later on I asked her again and she said she had a lilttle fever... After that I asked for her phone number. She seem flatter she was smiling... she made an excuse up by saying she didn't know her cell phone number. Than she started to walk off a little bit until I stop her again... I asked her, " I cant call you sometime? Than she said there's problems and it's complicated to explain and I said "ok thats fine" in a nice way... Than I let her walk off.........
2007-03-16 17:48:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i don't know what could possibly be wrong with her. maybe after being in a private school she is shy and doesn't know how to talk to guys or how to do these sort of things. or maybe she is scared. don't push just talk to her. wait about a week and talk to her during htis period of time, don't push her into giving you her number. just talk to her. anyways hope this helps, holly
2007-03-16 17:56:50 · answer #1 · answered by Holly D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow.............. Sounds like this girl is having some kind of problem, there can be a lot of reasons why she didn't give you her number. Maybe she's not allowed to get calls, or maybe she just got a new cell phone and doesn't know the number. If you really like her, I would just tell her, That you like her and that you want to get to know her better just as a friend. Tell her you thought that you had a pretty good conversation and don't understand why she would call herself a loser cause you don't think so. Just tell her that you want to be her friend and then see what happens next
2007-03-16 17:57:11 · answer #2 · answered by Melanie N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She does like you, though it what way it is hard to be sure. There are all kinds of things that could be going on, like a boyfriend at her old school or really strict parents that don't want her giving out her number. Be casual, but keep being nice to her and build a little trust, you may find out what is going on over time. Her calling herself a "looser" probably means that her self-confidence is low. I'm sure she can use a friend and it might turn into something more later.
2007-03-16 18:01:55 · answer #3 · answered by historydoc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would give it time. It sounds like she's interested in a friendship, at the very least, by the way she led the initial discussion. Maybe after you two get to know each other a little better, she'll want the relationship to go a little further. Good luck!
2007-03-16 18:08:32 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she might need sometime to work out some personal issues. I would keep being friendly with her but don't rush her.
And remember. . .its only high school. Unfortunately people spend so much time worrying about the opposite sex that they forget that they are supposed to be learning. My real advice? Work hard, make good grades, and leave the girls alone till you get into to college. :)
2007-03-16 17:54:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably thinks your not interested in her & just wants to be friends believe me it happened to me I liked this guy & it was the same signs but i thought he just wanted to be my friend but he didnt so know that i had figured that out he moved on to another girl :( so just talk to her more & show signs that your interested!
2007-03-24 17:12:37 · answer #6 · answered by CRUSH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she has some problems at her house or some personal ones. Just be friends with her and slowly get closer.
2007-03-17 04:36:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like she has some personal issues......if she really likes you she will tell you........so don't really think aabout it..just let things happen
2007-03-16 21:26:00 · answer #8 · answered by nadia p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking to her normally, get her to get use to you
2007-03-24 14:42:23 · answer #9 · answered by Hazel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be friends
2007-03-16 22:07:56 · answer #10 · answered by Dinesh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋