and i still love her so much she is such a mean angry and cold hearted person, is it wrong of me to pray to god to take this love i have for her STILL and take it away from my heart?
2007-03-16 17:40:02 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am sure she loves you too as much. It just sometimes people go through difficult and confused periods in their lives, and it takes time to set straight the priorities. I am sure she will be back soon.
2007-03-16 17:45:50 · answer #1 · answered by OC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You my friend are a victim of a severely broken heart. That's the consequence of loving the wrong person. It is not wrong to ask God to take away something that causes pain. Understand though that your heart will heal. It takes time and you will go through a few different emotions. You will feel not only the pain, but also anger, loss, denial, regret, indecision, and finally satisfaction. They say divorce can be as painful as losing someone to a sudden death. When you finally get past the worst and start socializing again you will find that you are still alive and vibrant inside. Give it time and reflect on what you can do to improve your inner and outer self. If you concentrate on making some self improvements you will gain self confidence and self esteem. It can make a world of difference in how fast you become a happy person again. Trust me - I've been there done that.
2007-03-17 00:53:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, its not wrong if you pray to God to take the love you have for her whatever the situation it may be.
God will always understand why you want to pray for your wife and why your feeling that way.
You should try to talk to her about it why is she cold hearted and tell her that its hurting you a lot. Tell her you love her so much and you dont want to end up not being together if this is gonna go on. Because if she gonna stay like that in time your gonna get tired of it. Your gonna end up leaving her.
Just keep on praying to God. Just have faith. Always bring her to your prayers and in Gods time he'll answer you prayers.
Either she'll change for the better...
If she changed then praise God and Have a wonderful life together.
OR if you guys end up not being together in the future...
Just remember that God has plans for you. You may not understand why things had happened or things are happening to your life God is always with you no matter what. So think of it that maybe God has a better plans for YOU and for HER.
2007-03-17 01:00:23 · answer #3 · answered by MizBeingCute 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray that GOD will help her to change then tell her if she wants to save the marriage she is going to have to go to counseling and she can pick the counselor.She will obviously go into a fit of rage ,but stand firm.She will refuse to do this, pack and leave and let her have a change of heart.If she loves you at all, after "missing the water when the well has run dry" she will either give in or be willing to divorce.
2007-03-17 00:54:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly what you are going through. My husband used to be so mean and controlling. I prayed all the time that he would meet someone else so I could be free. He left and married someone else. It is hell. Divorce is horrible. If there is any way to save your marriage try it. Especially if you have kids. I will pray for you and your wife. Just keep praying and hang in there. God will not keep you in that kind of misery forever. Put it in Gods hands and see what happens.
2007-03-17 00:50:57 · answer #5 · answered by Cindy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is always best to pray for the things we want in life. we have no control over others, or what they do, but when things get bad, prayer works. just because she hurt u doesn't take the love u have away. in fact sometimes we tend to love them more, because no one likes to loose, it causes depression to have to give up something we love, just a normal response when we get hurt. u should get some therapy, as grief is helped with involving others and being able to talk about your pain.
2007-03-17 07:36:33 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I actually think it is good that you are praying. Go to church. God will probably have a better person for you there that deserves your love. I am not too religious nor do I go to church but I just felt I had to tell u this for some reason...Good luck! :)
2007-03-17 00:48:27 · answer #7 · answered by Blue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she cheated, it may never be completely repaired. Sometimes it is hard to let go and that first love lingers for life, but life must go on.
It seems you are asking God to make a decision you already know what to do?
2007-03-17 00:47:06 · answer #8 · answered by TenJac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get real and grow some backbone. Give her walking papers or You leave. continuing the relationship is a waste of time. End it before it gets even uglier.
2007-03-17 00:46:02 · answer #9 · answered by mr conservative 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in your shoes before, no you are not wrong. You are wrong for staying in this relationship, she makes you miserable. Get out of it! Don't just walk away, run and don't look back. Good luck
2007-03-17 01:07:34 · answer #10 · answered by Steel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋