she is also married but her marriage is not working that good and she is staying away from her husband. i just wanted a physical relation with her. but yet times i use to say that i love her and all. one day she come to know that i was having relations with other females also. since then i start to avoid her little bit. she got very upset and she said i played with her emotions. i was not emotional with her and didnt ask her to be emotional with me. now she told everything about me to my wife and family. i think what she did is wrong. she says any one in her place would have done the same.
2007-03-16 17:36:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
she was hurt, and hurting people hurt others. she wanted u to hurt just like her. u used her for sex only, u did play with her emotions, she mistook love for lust. an honest mistake we all tend to make, she thought your feelings for her were genuine. she chose to seek revenge rather than just walk away hurt, sometimes happens, so what comes around goes around, and for what u did to her u are now getting paid back for. its called karma.
2007-03-17 00:41:15 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, IMHO, if all you wanted was physical contact, you should not have said you loved her. That's a little harsh. Whether or not what she did was right, is a question that just spawns other questions. Was she doing it to get back at you (it does appear from your post that was the case), or was it because she felt it was in your family's best interest? Maybe she *felt* it was the right thing to do. At any rate, she can't speak for "any one", because she is not everyone. I'd say you have a lot of talking to do with your wife, though.
2007-03-16 17:42:18 · answer #2 · answered by Harry's wifey. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off yes just about any female would had caught you up once they found out they werent the only other girl but first of all you brought this issue on yourself because you chose for whatever reason to cheat on your wife and obviously had you not been unfaithful this girl wouldnt have any thing to get you in trouble with so although yes she ended up telling on you its still all your fault for doing something to be told on for and all this shes older crap doesnt matter plain and simple you know right from wrong at like age 1 year so that wont work sorry but good try...at this point suck it up admit you were wrong and move on with life mean while hopefully learning a very important lesson there ok son get a clue
2007-03-16 17:46:34 · answer #3 · answered by ELIZY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after 30 years you would think you would have the balls to tell your wife that you d0nt want to be with her so you can see other people. YOu get what you deserve....
wow you really blew it! look at all the lives you ruined just because your a horney old toad.
i wouldnt worry about yourself right now. think about your poor wife. She probably considered you her best friend.
shame on you ....if i was your wife I would tie your rear end up in a chair. torch your ugly toad with gas and hand you a knife.....let it burn or cut if off. hummmm .....thats a visual....
as for the woman that told on you....what made her think that you where going to be faithful....after all she knows you were cheating on your wife.....\
my advise in the future if your wife forgives you ...get some KY handle things yourself! no-one every gets in trouble for masterbating
2007-03-16 18:17:22 · answer #4 · answered by rondalaurell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is right about telling your wife when are you men going to realize you can't hit and run and get away with it. I feel sorry for your wife she is the innocence one here. I like your wife was told by the other woman what my husband was doing behind my back to me and his son for over three years.
2007-03-16 18:01:07 · answer #5 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a cheater, and you got involved with another cheater. Did you really expect high moral standards from her? Hello! She is screwing around on her husband!
Sure, what she did was low, but so is adultery. So get off your high horse, you are no better than she is, and the two of you deserve each other.
2007-03-16 17:40:20 · answer #6 · answered by Liz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What she did was right, altho for the wrong reasons.What you did was wrong, committing adultery on your wife KNOWING BEFOREHAND what you stood to lose.This is YOUR fault not hers.You said you told her you loved her and then denied playing on her emotions.Give me a break dude.You made your mess,now your going to have to sleep in it.Learn from your mistakes.Dont repeat them.
2007-03-16 17:47:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all..dont try put the blame on someone else.
You decided to have an affair..and this is what you get for it.
Its your own fault..this is the consequences to your actions.
If you didnt want your wife knowing..then you shouldnt of done anything.
and i hope your wife either forgives you..or dumps you..because she deserves better.
If you want to fool around with different girls..dont marry any of them until your ready to be committed...because your only hurting people..and in the end..no one will take you seriously and no one will want to be with you long-term.
2007-03-16 18:48:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you reap what you sow and you sowed a whole big bag of disrespect. You treated your wife and your mistress with careless disrespect. Get a divorce and get therapy. Learn how to treat people like they mean something, but first learn how to act with integrity instead of playing "you were meaner than me"
2007-03-16 17:42:47 · answer #9 · answered by Cassandra G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HA!! You got screwed!!You shouldn't have told her you loved her if you only wanted a physical relationship with her.Sucked in-it's called karma baby!
2007-03-18 01:34:06 · answer #10 · answered by Jane Doe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋