i just can't forget about my old school. im pretty much the new kid in this school..and im a nobody. i used to be a cheerleader, i was popular, i sang in front of an audience, i was super trendy, and i just had it all. but in my new school..i first got the impression that everybody is mean... and my new friend tells me im mean when i joke with her [i can't help it, it's how i am...] i dont even have a boyfriend...i dress so plain...i can't stare at anybody in the eye...and i'm horrible at starting a conversation. i feel so small..and my grades are slipping too. im not really depressed, i just have super low confidence...and i feel that i'm not beautiful anymore. when a teacher mentions my name everybody is like, "who?".
2007-03-16 17:23:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
im not trying to be popular. i just want to fit in. i only have 1 friend. and she's kind of mean to me.
2007-03-16 17:29:50 · update #1
I had the same problem this year when I transferred schools, and it's hard to say because kids in school are just mean and judgemental and it's really hard to overcome it. First, stop calling yourself a big loser... if you were cool at your old school and popular then you're not a loser at all. Second, just be yourself... even if someone thinks your too mean then maybe they just need to stop being sensitive, there's nothing wrong with you though. Third, it's not a big deal that you don't have a boyfriend. In fact, it's better. If you fall into the dating pool too fast at this new school and then break up, you don't know what kind of reputation might come out of it and you won't have too much support to back you up.
Just look for people that like the same things you do. If it's too late to tryout for cheerleading just stick around the school's cheer team practice, offer the girls advice, show them your moves, and you'll eventually just click. Or try getting a job.
Good luck.
2007-03-16 17:32:49 · answer #1 · answered by Blythe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being the new kid definitely sucks. but get back into the cheerleading squad. get back into choir. join the musical. ask teachers for help if you're struggling. find the cute/single boy. eventually this will lead to more friendships. whether its the popular group, the middle-class group or the "losers" you will find a group that will take you in. Cheerleading will definitely increase the amount of attention/interest you receive.
2007-03-17 00:31:07 · answer #2 · answered by theskybelow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Schools tend to be a popularity contest and then you grow up and find out how stupid you where in giving to much thought to others. Just focus on being yourself and not worrying about impressing others. They are not going to pass the classes for you. Focus on your education. You are the new person in school so what. Kids play childish games and when it gets old picking on you they will find some one else to pick on. Wait till college to have fun and to get a boyfriend.
2007-03-17 00:30:56 · answer #3 · answered by another journey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember your old days. U r not a loser but an achiever. You can get it back...
2007-03-17 00:31:33 · answer #4 · answered by @rrsu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont try to be popular because that will most likely go down hill.. try to make friends with ANYBODY.. then go off from there.
2007-03-17 00:27:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋