I have been trying to research this subject and it seems more and more that its the women who will date a man if the man already has children whereas the man is more hesistant to date a woman who has children. Do you agree or disagree with this and why or why not? Tell me your experience!
2007-03-16 17:09:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am female and I most probably wouldn't. There are a lot of guys out there without such commitments, so why complicate my life. Also, I think I am a bit selfish person; if I am ever to have kids with some man, I would want him to spend his time with them, not with his other kids. Maybe I am just a bad person.
2007-03-16 17:20:42 · answer #1 · answered by Kaytee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 37 and My fiance of 6 years is 28 & he has no kids, If he did I would not date him. I feel that I should never have had settle and I think that even though I used to always date older guys I felt it was wise to finally date a younger guy because most of the men already had kids and I want my own not someone elses. But not just that men with kids can devote less time to you personally and I feel I would not tolerate that I just know how I am. I tried dating a guy with a child one time only and that was a bad idea for sure.
2007-03-16 17:18:56 · answer #2 · answered by CAW1969 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not into dating someone that has children already, I am 26 years old have 3 children all by the same man, our marriage went to hell after being married 3 years and together since high school.. I was so scared that a man with children of his own would never love mine the same as he did his, I was raised in a step parent home, and was treated different then the REAL kids, So as my chose I wouldnt date someone with children, I did find a man that had none, and took mine on as his own, I refuse to have anymore children with him, I dont think it is right, and I know I am doing him wrong too... But that is me not everyone else
2007-03-16 17:16:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
When I was single, I thought about this too. I would have and did date men with children. After my divorce, I had many dates and married a man that never had been married and had no kids. He loves my children very much. Because of this, I knew that he would never hurt them and we ended up having 3 more kids. We have 6 total now! This was many years ago and now are expecting our 2nd and 3rd grandchild. This is my experience.
2007-03-17 00:15:12 · answer #4 · answered by lillbird 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are more families in US where men are single parents. And also there are more men looking to get into serious relationships an dI have seen that they don't mind dating women with children at least here in the United States.
A dtaing site which I have been using singleparents123.com , has many men with women and they are there for a serious relationship.
2007-03-17 12:38:08 · answer #5 · answered by singleparent 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've dated a couple of women with children. I basically didn't have any trouble with it, except I was deeply, madly, head over heels in love with one of the mothers, and I became very attached to her kids and enjoyed spending time with all of them as a family. Its been almost two years since we broke up and I miss the kids as much or more than I do the mother.
Dating with kids involved can be very complicated though.
2007-03-16 19:11:55 · answer #6 · answered by safari_lounge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would date a guy with children. As long as he was a good father and his relationship with their mother was actually over.
From what I have seen less guys want to date women with children BUT I have seen it happen. My friend has a daughter and a boyfriend. (not the father)
2007-03-16 17:22:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have two kids (grown now), and my second marriage is to a man who is not only 12 years younger than I am, but he became a wonderful father to my kids. Considering how young he was and never having had the experience of parenthood....he was a natural. My daughter wants HIM to walk her down the aisle when she gets married...not her father.
2007-03-16 17:20:48 · answer #8 · answered by LolaCorolla 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i've dated a guy with a child. the child wasnt the problem it was his ex. she would call my bf (at the time). i thought it was about the baby. but it wasnt it was about her problems with her bf .why is she calling my bf about her problems when she only should be calling about the baby!so i would get upset. anyways my opinion is that its harder for women to get involved with men w/children than for men to get involved with women w/ children for the fact that in most cases the women have nothing to do with the children father.Most fathers are not in the childs life. when the mens baby mother are in the childs life. (BABY MAMA DRAMA!!)
2007-03-16 17:33:34 · answer #9 · answered by brenda_lilb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean archives or links? So what if the oldest sibling in a single kinfolk dates the oldest sibling in yet another? All which ability is they're close in age and prefer one yet another. there is not any "archives" or "links" on issues like this.
2016-10-18 21:37:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋