Why Does No One Understand....?

Question

No one understands anything......

Do you ever feel like "what's the point"?

Do you ever wonder why you even bother doing what your doing?

Do you find yourself not caring anymore, about anything?

I do. I feel like no one can ever understand....No one will listen....

Does anyone else feel so hopeless.... So misunderstood, and lost?

By the way...I'm not Christian.....

And by the way...I'm not emo either.

And it's not about anyone "understanding". Just forget that part of the question.

I'm just trying to say, why does everything seem pointless.

All the anger, hate, sadness, lies, and emptiness.

Answer 1

A lot of people don't understand because they don't take the time to do so. Most people are self absorbed and uncompassionate. Most people are sadistic and rude. If you are trying to find compassion and empathy, you need to find people that are alone like you are. Say "HI" to someone at school that is sitting alone.
Most people do not listen and that is the reality of this world.

Answer 2

First: why is it important that someone ELSE understands?
IF you are sure of what you think, nobody else's opinion is required.
IF you are hurting and looking for a sympathetic soul, try being sympathetic to someone else. You will find that there is no difference between the giving and the receiving of LOVE in order to experience the flow of LOVE.
I didn't want to believe this myself, but have an example to give you:
When I cuddle my dogs/cats with love, when I GIVE them my love, I myself FEEL Love.
I don't want to offend you, and I am very familiar with this 'misunderstood' feeling since I've had it myself.
It stems from "Me-Itis". It's the AAMD - the All-About-Me-Disease.
You can't be blamed for it, because most of us have been taught that we're SUPPOSED to worry about 'all-about-me'.
However, this teaching was either misrepresented or misreceived. It's NOT all-about-me. It IS about "Me BEING Me", and you do well to focus on that.
When you do, you'll find that other people's opininions cease to matter, and someone else's understanding becomes just about meaningless.
Don't cling to the need to have someone else 'understand'. You ARE OK the way you are. If YOU understand yourself, accept yourself, then you have the ticket to live FREE.
FREE means the world, the universe, is wide open to you. Think of the endless possibilities. You simply CANNOT feel hopeless or lost in the midst of this plenty.

Answer 3

It's ok - it just means you are a self-centered spoiled EMO brat. I used to be one too. Quit hanging out with your emo friends, and do something meaningful with your life. Quit trying to make everyone understand, and instead you try to understand them. If you feel like you shouldnt bother doing what you are doing... then do something else. Who cares if people don't understand or care... nobody understands or cares about them either.

Answer 4

-yes many times
-sometimes
-there are times like that yes
-yes
- only all the time...hardly anyone seems to understand what im going through
-yes

you are not alone in this obviously...they say time heals all wounds and maybe you just need to hang out w/friends more..maybe hang out with some girls hmmm

signed,
a girl hopelessly w/a love narcotic

Answer 5

hahahahahahaha EMOOOOO

haha but no seriously i do feel like that sometimes...... The trick is to involve yourself in a hobby, something you find cool, so that you can see the bright side of life - usually solitary - until you can regain enough energy to return to your activities with gusto.

Answer 6

Everyone likes to think they're special, but no one is. Just accept that nothing means anything, or ever did, or ever will, and anything you thought or think or will think is infinitely true and false at the same time. So, get over it.

Answer 7

I felt exactly as you say when I was 15 years old so I told my father about it and ask him all those questions so at the end he told me - then kill yourself- his answer was so shoking that i just started finding a reason and I did. Good luck,you will find yours.

Answer 8

First thing to do is to understand yourself and you will understand others,then you will be understood. How can you be understood by others when you also dont understand why they are the way they are?

Answer 9

yes i do feel that way sometimes but then after a while it all goes away and I'm feel better.....the best thing that works for me is... doing something that has meaning to my life...for me staring at the TV works the best...

but yes you are not the only to feel that way..

Answer 10

yeah i feel like that everyday sometime i wonder whats the point of living. and no one understands me