What matters should people discuss before they get married?
2007-03-16 16:56:16 · 6 answers · asked by Hsien S 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Books & Authors
EVERYTHING YOU CAN THINK OF----
how many children they want, what their career goals are, living expectations, jealousy, money- joint account? who takes care of the bills? what kind of animals to have. where to live? what happens if someone's job transfers? religious preferences, religious preferences for their children, getting "comfortable" with themselves and their bodies, lazyness, household chores, friend time, alone time, weekends, annoying habits that haven't been announced yet. EVERYTHING
2007-03-16 17:05:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finances
Children
Religion
Work Ethics (workaholic or couch potato?)
Hobbies
Medical Conditions
Messy or Neat?
How they feel about having 100 Beanie Babies on the bed
Sleep with the window open or closed?
Cook in or eat out?
Type of music they enjoy
Type of movies they enjoy
Past loves
Pets
Sports on TV in your underwear or in actual pants?
Things in your life you will NOT get rid of
Comprimises
What makes you laugh?
Allergies
Elvis or the Beatles?
Wills
Organ Donorship
Where to live
Inlaws
the future
Pre nuptual agreements
Goobers or Raisinettes?
Vanilla or chocolate?
Phobias
And most important of all ...
Who gets the Plasma TV if you split up?
2007-03-16 17:13:33 · answer #2 · answered by Persiphone_Hellecat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Financial, how u r going to handle the money. together or is one going to do it all. Children. Do you want them? How do you raise them? Religion. go to church or no? Where do you see yourself in 10 years. And your every day life. What drives you crazy about your better half and can you tolerate it forever. Just to name a few
2007-03-16 17:07:37 · answer #3 · answered by Mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there's a whole lot to talk about....
Religion, kids, future goals, where you want to be in ten years, MONEY...many problems come from that subject. Make sure you both agree on how you spend your money...budget, or no budget. This just scratches the surface...
2007-03-16 17:04:28 · answer #4 · answered by cheenawc1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finances, kids, sex and possibly politics. I've seen couples who were polar opposites on politics make it work - I think it comes down to how you veiw money, view raising kids or having them and the sex thing. Good luck.
2007-03-16 17:04:48 · answer #5 · answered by da_knees 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they both have their own money and or homes etc-then they should discuss pre nup of course. other than that they should probably know if one or the other does or doesn't want kids.
2007-03-16 17:04:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋