I am muslim and this popular indian boy keeps calling me a ****** for no reason then later laughs at me. I tried to ignore him but he keeps giving me racist jokes and people don't even bother to stop him cuz he's popular. I ignore him so much and I still hear what he says and it hurts. i asked why he does this then he just says "it's fun!" people think he is just kidding around but it hurts and i cry. i am sick of hearing this, what should I DO??? I also tried the niceness can kill thing on him and he still insulted me and i fely bad. i am tired of ignoring him when i know it's gonna hurt anyway!!! please don't answer impossible sugggestions...
2007-03-16 16:38:03 · 3 answers · asked by Creme Brulee' 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Tell him to stop calling you that. Go to the school authorities as well. Or say, "NO!," or "Stop lying!" each time.
I want you to know that I have a good idea as to what you feel. I am a moral transsexual and I've been called ugly names before and accused of the most disgusting things. I would explain my situation if I could, or I would say, "NO!," or something. If I explained anything, it was never for the benefit of the name-callers, but for their audience, since these types are generally too cowardly to bully or bash anyone unless they have an audience.
For your sanity, there are some things you can do. You can share this with your friends. Keeping a journal may also help. Positive affirmations should help. Each time you hear such junk from him, say 50 good things about yourself to yourself. For me, I often tried to channel my anger into songs or poetry immediately after such a name-calling incident.
2007-03-16 16:42:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do your paths cross every day or is there a way you can avoid him? Do you have a school counselor that you could talk to about him? If he's continuing to do this after you've ignored him and asked him nicely to stop, he's harassing you and the school needs to be aware of it. He sounds like he's got a couple of screws loose -- like the type of guy who thinks it's funny to pull the wings off flies.
2007-03-16 23:43:55 · answer #2 · answered by Emily Dew 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best possible thing to do is ignore him......I know it's soooo corny sounding and mom-like, but once he stops getting you upset - he's going to have no reason to talk to you......see how men work??! haha!
2007-03-16 23:48:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋