is my friend a true friend.....................?

Question

is my friend a true friend? we are in 5th grade and ever since we started 5th grade she has bossed me around and last year we were so close. this year its like all she does is hang out with her other 2 friends and i feel like a "4th wheel" and she is only nice when we are alone. so when she wants to hang out with me her other 2 friends Courtney and Kristina get so MAD! and it is sicknin ( i dont know how to spell it )please help me with my friends PROBLEMS!!

and i do hang out alone @ recess

Answer 1

Please do not stick around for the abuse if she was your true Friend she will never put you aside but make you first so that her other friends will accept you.. Obviously she is trying o fit in and she is not being herself so, so if she is not true to herself how do you expect her to be true to you. Leave her alone so she can learn her lesson and you be a bigger person and move on. Friends will lead you but they will never bring you back. You continue to be you and if later on she comes back changed the n it is up to you to forgive if not continue n your journey to find a true friend that will stick by you no matter what. You do not need her stress and insecurity.

Answer 2

You should go up to your friend when Courtney and Kristina is not around and tell her you feel like the 4 wheel and If she was really your friend she would understand that and don't let her be the boss of you that what i think i hope you find the answer you are looking for good luck

Answer 3

If she was a true friend, she would not put you in a situation where you are feeling like the fourth wheel. She appears to only think of being the center of attention. Your young and you will make new friends through out your school years. Friends will come and go.

Answer 4

Obviously if she's going to fake who she is around other people, that means she's not a true friend. Bossing you around isn't very loyal either. You don't have to end the friendship, so when you're alone, tell her that you feel that she thinks you're not important and that you're sick of it. Tell her to treat you as part of the group. Her other friends aren't very nice either, and if she can't accept you as a friend to everyone, you're better off free of her anyway then.

Answer 5

If you feel that you are being treated like a 4th wheel then hey what are you waiting for, just go up to her and ask her why cant she treat you the same way as she treats the other two girls. Why should you be treated the different.

Answer 6

Find a new friend or just hang out alone. Friends like that will get you into trouble.

Answer 7

hey you, i really think you should talk to your friend about the way she treats you! try to tell her how you feel because she's bossing you around. i would also tell her that you enjoy being her friend and feel like she'd rather spend time with her two new friends instead. see how she reacts. there could be a few reasons for her reaction. just remember that you deserve to be treated with respect.

Answer 8

Well I am in the same exac situation I have aq friend that hangs around 9th graders and she also has another friend named destiny and I am not around my other friend Rochelle all the time and everytime they are around eachother they always have something to talk about and I am left felling left out well anyways we need to be strong and kick them to the curb!!!!!

Answer 9

If you have to ask that, then there's a problem. all I can tell you is to talk to her, see where she stands. Tell her your feelings, if she's your friend she'll listen. As time passes and people get older their true colors show. You seem like a really good friend, so don't stress yourself out over this problem if she doesn;t want to fix it.:)

Answer 10

Friends don't stay friends forever, especially at your age. You grow up & grow apart. Lots of girls (and boys) have been through what you're going through. Its time for you to start looking for new friends. You should be happy with your friends, not always upset.