so i have this friend...?

Question

and he has been acting wierd lately..i mean even all of the other girls he more closer to than me he wont tell them whats wrong and he always tells them everything..andwe all ask him whats wrong..and today lik he never does this but he put his hood of his hoodie on and wlked around w/ his head down and if u said hi he would tunr around and walk away...he did get written up 4 summin and he got an iti(in team isolation) and he was in a class all day but i mean its wierd for him to act the way he did lik ignoring us walking w/ his head down..and he even got someone to tell us that theres a secret about him but he doesnt wanna tell us cause it'll break our hearts if he does and hes going through a "stage"....and that he doesnt wanna be friends anymore..for a few weeks...should i find out whats wrong i mean i think i know whats wrondg but i dont wanna interfear or should i?

Answer 1

There is probably something going on at home that he's really sad about. Just give him time and don't bug him. If he wants to talk then he will. You can just say, "We are all really worried about you, are you okay?" if he doesn't want to tell you then that's his choice so wait until he wants to talk. good luck! =)

Answer 2

It sounds like he is having a really hard time but isn't ready to talk about it. Just let him know you are there when he is ready and then back away for a little while. He will tell you when is comfortable.

Answer 3

He's definitely not going to discuss it in front of other people because he is obviously embarrassed about it. I would just offer your friendship, and not push for info- when (and if) he feels comfortable, he'll tell you. He needs to know that he's not going to be judged for it, and that's a hard thing to promise.

Answer 4

just give him some time he will come around soon. maybe some1 he loved in his family may have passed away who knows but just give him time and he will come around.