i wish to change our relationship from friendship to more is there a way i can change it without making it worse
2007-03-16 15:32:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
There is no way to make someone feel love for you. As much as you want that to happen you can't.
I know that you love this guy with all of your heart. You may just have to come to terms with the fact that he may not every love you the same way.
You do have a choice you can walk away with a broken heart. Or you can give you heart time to heal but keep this guy as a friend. I know that is sounds like nonesense and it sounds like you wil never be able to heal your broken heart. But remember time heals all wounds, I am not saying that by tomorrow your heart will heal but in time you will see you can have those same feelings for someone else. As far as your guy friend, isnt life richer when you have friends? You may not be able to talk to him right away but in time you can be pals.
I remember when I was in a very similar situation like yours. I told my guy that I liked him but alas he didnt like me back in that way. :( We didnt talk for about 2-3 months but he became the best (guy) friend I could ever ask for. I am grateful every day that we remained friends.
Good luck!
2007-03-22 15:59:26 · answer #1 · answered by iceycalm101 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO freaking way. My boyfriend now his ex-spouse is like 30 years older than me and 21 years older than him. i think of she became merely out to have somebody to play with and administration. Older women persons are greater mature so why might they choose to play with a severe college youngster? it is like going to a playschool to get a date. form of ill. Pedophiles are no longer continually going for human beings below 18. Sorry 10 years may be the cap.
2016-12-18 15:43:10 · answer #2 · answered by hirschfeld 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you can make someone like you... i can anyway... make it seem that ya'll are perfect together... literally... like the same things he's into. if he likes fishing... ask him to take you fishing and flirt flirt flirt... maybe you should let him know that you want to be more than friends... give him "the look" i hope you know what i'm talking about... get tickets to his fav. sports team game... or fav. singers concert... when ya'll are sitting close put your hand in between ya'll and see if he holds it... one day he will if it is meant to be... because... my fav. quote..."what is meant to be will always find a way"
2007-03-16 15:41:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would rather have a true friend than a lover. once you cross that line and have sex with your friend, you will no longer be friends. he or she will see you differently. a lover comes a dime a dozen, but a true friend is a rare diamond. think about it carefully before you turn a friendship into a hateship.
2007-03-23 15:25:56 · answer #4 · answered by LENA 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
like it has been said, you cant really make anybody like you, the only thing to do is to try telling him the way you really feel, express your feelings to him. if he still see's you as a friend, well maybe it really is meant to be just friends. besides, you never know if he just doesnt want to ruin your friendship with him
2007-03-16 15:39:30 · answer #5 · answered by xxdodgerettexx 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This may sound corny to you, but why should you change yourself for someone who doesn't sound like he cares for you? You sound like a level-headed young lady. If Love is what you seek, IT WILL FIND YOU.......God Bless !!
2007-03-23 14:02:40 · answer #6 · answered by fuzzypetshop 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't make anyone like you - they have to feel it themselves. If you want more, then you need to talk to him and see if he feels the same way.
2007-03-16 15:35:30 · answer #7 · answered by Kitt 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh no :( I'm sorry he doesn't feel the same for you ...
Hey, what you can do is take those same feelings you have for him and project them upon someone who is receptive.
2007-03-16 15:38:04 · answer #8 · answered by rosie768 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honey aint NO man worth crying over and the one that is.......wont make you cry
2007-03-22 07:33:49 · answer #9 · answered by Newtron 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Strip yourself naked girl! That will change EVERYTHING LOL
2007-03-22 19:07:07 · answer #10 · answered by khatzzz 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋