what to do?

Question

my g/f got a bulletin which had a list of things in them with numbers next to it and what you had to do was pick these numbers and send them back to the person that sent you it . Ok so i went on her myspace to fix this bit for her she knew i was on it so its not like i was sneaking about behing her back and she had a new message so i told her she sys have a look see what it is so i did and it was as above.so i looked at it and soon noticed that she had sent this guy i dont know a few different numbers this is what they were


1. im in love you
2 . i wanna kiss you for the first time
3 . i wanna fck you
4 . i wanna make out with you
5 . i wanna hold your hand

so i saw this and i dunno if its just me but i wasnt at all happy about it so an arguement ensued she was saying they where having a joke it was a laff she dint mean it im being stupid blah blah .
so what do you think ?

am i being stupid ?

what would you do ?
sorry this is so long :)

Answer 1

Tad bit immature fun there, their having. I'd be upset at myself for choosing this girl whose got such a simple sense of humor... i guess. Really it is upsetting and would make me question how much she really understood about love, having "fun" relationships like that with people. Your stuck using that intiuation you've got. Gut Check in other words, if she can be the type to pull it off without it seeming like its a problem thou, you wouldn't of conflicted with her about it. Chances are she's the type with many impersonal relationships that lack any real emotional depth and you being one of the few to need to try to get past that are running into some nasty insecurities about her and her intentions. In other words, the reason this troubles you isn't because its the only thing she's done to make you question her fidelity. Its time to think about this lady real hard...