2007-03-16 15:12:59 · 13 answers · asked by Ivy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
the person is male, doesn't work, good health, plays runescape.
2007-03-16 15:21:40 · update #1
Whats the reason he stopped? Maybe he hasnt found a job that meets his standards. But he should still get something in the meantime. Be patient & hopefully he will find something fast!
2007-03-16 15:28:09 · answer #1 · answered by Mammamia3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's not working because he's injured, he should be getting disability pay. If he's not working because he's wealthy, he should have a great hobby that keeps him busy. But, if he's not working because he's lazy...you need to find out why he's being so lazy and consider your options.
If you're not happy with what's going on in your home, what are you doing to make it right? Probably a lot. However, homes need both people to work at the relationship.
If you're unsure of what road to travel or how to handle the situation that we might not know enough about, I highly recommend you talk with a counselor or therapist. They can help you sort out your options so you are happy with the results.
Good luck!
2007-03-16 22:21:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go to work and support him while he plays runescape until.... death do you part, OR, throw the game in the trash and tell him he has 2 weeks to bring home a paycheck or move back in with his parents.Tell me tho, did you know he was this lazy before you married him?If yes, why did you marry him anyway?If no, then you should have gotten to know him better.Learn from your mistakes.
2007-03-16 22:48:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends if they have good reason for not working and there is sufficient income to provide for the household without them working. Are they just being a stay at home mom or Mr. Mom? Are they injured? A little more information would be nice.
2007-03-16 22:17:35 · answer #4 · answered by tooqerq 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the reason, of course, but I guess, the question is because you feel he could be working, and you don't like it...you should give him a time limit, even if it is a job he thinks he is not worthy for, 'cause, guess what, it'll only get worse...
2007-03-16 23:41:26 · answer #5 · answered by avechm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the definition of "not working" (raising kids?) and/or what is the context for "not working" (got fired, disease?)?
Would "help your spouse" be an acceptable answer to your question?
2007-03-16 22:20:36 · answer #6 · answered by Claire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say to my spouse thats its time to start working to support our family.
2007-03-16 22:18:02 · answer #7 · answered by Dewanda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they dont get work then you go out and get a job and let them be the house keeper and home maker.
2007-03-16 22:36:53 · answer #8 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You realy need to add some more information if you are looking for an honest response.
2007-03-16 22:18:01 · answer #9 · answered by simplyme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him. cuz it looks like he wont get a job. why should you support him. i was thinking it was the other way. he is to support you. what is going on
2007-03-16 22:29:56 · answer #10 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋