is it normal to have doubts about getting married 2 months before the wedding or is it my subconscious telling me to stay away and stay single? I hate my new situations, relocated, got a new job, to move in with my fiance, and now feel upset about living in this new city, and having such a sucky job, not to mention, I miss my independence, and my free spirit is withering away. Is this normal? did you feel like this before you got married? how did you deal with it? does it get better? Do you wish you hadn't married? Did you bail out on your wedding day? basically...why does it all seem so crazy and is it normal?
2007-03-16 15:07:11 · 6 answers · asked by ingrid 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
All this because your fiance has a small penis. If he were laying it down, you wouldn't have these issues.
I shall now wait for my violation notice email.
sexual content.
2007-03-16 15:10:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
I think that a lot of your stress is to do with your relocation. I went through this myself and it takes time to settle in a new place to feel secure and comfortable. I can't tell you about whether you should marry or no - do you love your husband? Do you want to marry him? Are you happy together apart from the stress? If you have any doubts I would go to the counsellor with your fiance - it is normal to do that and I wish I did it. May be it would make me think better about how ready we were to get married. And you know what - it's not just one decision you need to make "marry or not", but another one as well - do you like this new city to live there. good luck!
2007-03-16 22:18:54 · answer #2 · answered by Alyssa Macey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most times it is normal but you should make sure you can change things along the way to make you happier. Find a better job, get to know the town. You never once said you were doubting your love for him so that's a good sign. All the other stuff you can fix or change. You have a bad case of nerves. Congrats and Good luck.
2007-03-16 22:17:21 · answer #3 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its called cold feet and its your subconsious making sure that you are making the right choice. It is not a sign to stay single, its just normal to go through this faze. I am going through it myself!!!!!!
2007-03-16 22:18:19 · answer #4 · answered by unforseenfantasy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your fine everybody will second guess things as time comes closer to marriage. dont forget what attracted you 2 together in the first place.
2007-03-16 22:30:17 · answer #5 · answered by bubba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT GET MARRIED JUST TO GET MARRIED!!!!!HUGE MISTAKE!!! IF HE DOESNT GIVE YOU THAT WARM FEELING BEING AROUND HIM!!!!NO!! MONEY....SECURITY......AINT ENOUGH A STRONG MARRIED DEMANDS BOTH SPOUSES TO BE COMPATIBLE ON THE MOST PART!!!LUST FOR EACH OTHER SEXUALLY!!!COMMUNICATION....HONESTY.....THEN FINANCIALLY... SHOULD BE THE LEAST IMPORTANT!!! PLEASE DONT MARRY NO ONE FOR WHICH THERE STRONGEST POINTS ARE MONEY,SCURITY IT WANT LAst!!!!!
2007-03-16 22:24:48 · answer #6 · answered by chochlateboy@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋