2007-03-16 15:03:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Ok its kind of nice to see you asking this,opposed to seeing 13 year old girls saying they are pregnant.Ok heres the deal,waiting until you are married is the very best thing you can do.No worries of pregnancy,STD'S and you have a once in a life time wedding night,that you will cherish forever.But the honest side of it is,you are 19 and an adult.This is truly your choice.Before you do have sex,ask yourself these questions...Can I handle a child if I were to get pregnant?Do I know where and how to get proper methods of birth control?Will I use them as they are meant,even if this means remembering to take a pill everyday at the same time?Do I know how to protect myself for STD'S?Am I planning to have one or multiple partners?
Im sure you know the correct answers to these questions,they are just to help you make sure you are planning to be safe.I wish you luck in what ever you deside,and from what ive been seeing on here Im glad you waited this long!
2007-03-16 16:39:25 · answer #1 · answered by jill@doodle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honestly? this is all a personal decision... if you feel like you should wait then do. don't do it just because you think you should be. do it because you want to, and feel something with the person. do not do it because other 19 year olds are or anything. do it because you love someone, and feel that connection with someone.
just if you do, be prepared for the consequences of what could happen. i got pregnant when i was 20, had my twins when i was 21.... love them more than anything and wouldn't trade them for anything just be careful and always have safe sex. don't forget protection!!!
2007-03-16 15:32:04 · answer #2 · answered by ricleigh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait till you get married??? Hey...this is the 21st Century. Enjoy all you can now..later you wont have the time or the babes you can find now. Remember- a child gets a kiss free, a teenager steals it and an old man buys it.
2007-03-16 23:07:16 · answer #3 · answered by papars 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honestly, you should wait until you really love the person. Unless you really respect this person, you should wait until after you are married.
2007-03-16 16:45:44 · answer #4 · answered by Smarty Pants 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats entirely up to you. Why don't you do something really different and wait until you are married.
2007-03-16 16:26:16 · answer #5 · answered by Calais 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is your decision but if I had to choose it for you I would say wait until you are married.
2007-03-16 18:34:06 · answer #6 · answered by momof3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait till marriage until u can use ur own hands
2007-03-16 21:27:24 · answer #7 · answered by Dinesh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WANT MY ADVICE?
THIS IS YOUR BODY AND YOUR DECISION. BUT DON'T GO TO SLEEP WITH FIRST PERSON YOU SEE. GIVE IT TIME. AND LAST.... ALWAYS USE PROTECTION AND GO TO A DOCTOR TO HAVE CHECK UP. JUST BECAUSE SOMEONE TELL YOU " I DON'T HAVE ANYTHING, I'M HEALTHY" DOES NT MEAN ANYTHING! TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF! :D
2007-03-17 09:38:45 · answer #8 · answered by Traveling girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋