i'm bisexual... and my family detest same sex relationships. they don't know about my bi-ness and i'm afraid to tell them. how would i tell them i like seeing women, and men?
2007-03-16 15:00:08 · 20 answers · asked by Alexandrea R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
That'll be a hard one.
My parents actually took it pretty well when I told them I was bi.
They did however kinda got disappointed when I turned totally lesbian. They knew they were not gonna be grandparents.
2007-03-16 15:03:28 · answer #1 · answered by Cuddly Lez 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, do you live with your parents still? Don't tell them until you have met someone you are planning to spend your life with. I think they would accept you more if you were either straight or gay.... Bi seems like you just want to have the best of both worlds. It would be easy to make a decision on which sex you would want to be with when you are Bi then when you are born only being attracted to one sex. You need to decide if you are straight or gay and then tell them that.
2007-03-16 22:05:11 · answer #2 · answered by florida_sassy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why bring your parents into the bedroom? That is exactly what you are doing at this point. Dont say anything right now. It is your own business. Unless you are forming a lasting relationship with either sex, it is no ones business.
2007-03-16 22:05:13 · answer #3 · answered by mlock123 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you don't. You cant force people to accept things like that. Doing so might break the relationship. Keep it to yourself. And just why do so many people like throwing things like this up in someones face. Is it to say look what I can do? Honestly just be happy this thing makes you happy. Why do you care if they accept you this way?
2007-03-16 22:07:17 · answer #4 · answered by Sronce 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest , sooner or later they will hear about it . get it out in the open for a piece of mine .
Sometimes families say things , but when it hits home , there own siblings , they change there mind ,
They will come to turns with it if they want to have a relationship with you , or they no they will loose you .
2007-03-16 22:05:28 · answer #5 · answered by dolores h 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what is so very wierd to me is that you seem pressured to tell them. is it the homo dentist affecting your burning desire to ruin an old couuples day? you and me know so very little if you think about it. so much about the universe that you have no idea. why in the hell do you tjhink they need to be told about your current lifestyle? i hope i am not the only person who feels this way.
2007-03-16 22:04:26 · answer #6 · answered by hillary c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im also bi but im more into women i have girlfriend her parents really hate it so if you honestly know that your parents dont like it and you think they will tear you down dont tell them. but then again you wont never know intil you try i flat out told mine and they was ok with it.
2007-03-16 22:33:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't see why you have to tell them now.
if you decide to be with a woman they'll just have to accept it.
if you feel like you have to tell them, i don't think there's an easy way. no one takes bisexuality seriously anyway. they'll probably just tell you you're confused and you'll be "fixed" soon. people just don't want to believe, so they won't
good luck
2007-03-16 22:04:19 · answer #8 · answered by tinkbostwick 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sit them down and tell them that you want to have a serious conversation with them. just tell them. they will probably take a long time to cope with that, but (hopefully) in the long run they will learn to accept you for who you are. you might want to search the web even more for other methods of breaking it to them gently. good luck!
2007-03-16 22:03:50 · answer #9 · answered by psgr 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think you just have to tell them all the same...you alone cant solve the problem, because the more you try to solve it alone, the more you get involved in it. so dear just find a way to find them at their happy mood then you can break it down
2007-03-16 22:07:09 · answer #10 · answered by Elfindo C 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋