I believe that is a woman's job to satisfy her husband sexually. Period.
However, it's the man's job to get her to want to satisfy him.
What say you sex-deprived married people?
2007-03-16 14:48:13 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My man gets it whenever he wants it, and so do I. What's the big deal? I'm not his sex slave, but I am his partner and I'd rather satisfy him than b*tching about having too much sex and everything else that women b*tch about. Men have needs and I'm his wife and I should be fulfilling those needs.
Women these days think that they shouldn't have to satisfy anyone but themselves. Good question!
2007-03-16 14:53:52 · answer #1 · answered by SillyKimmie 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Try taking a step back and think about what you are saying. Neither a man or a woman should be "on call" at someone's command to have sex with them. Do you really think that is fair? How about if the woman you are married to did not feel that you made enough money and told you to get a second job? Compromising will help you to have a happier relationship. Good luck.
2007-03-16 14:56:59 · answer #2 · answered by BR 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yup - this will settle it "once and for all." (rolls eyes)
Buddy you'll be on here again in 45 minutes asking the same damn thing again.
Which tells us a thing or two about you.
[1] You think woman are like cattle - property to be owned and who "owe" you a gift for keeping them under your roof.
[2] Your wife has a low sex drive, and you are frustrated by that, so you are working on your "but it's your *duty* as a wife" speech here.
[3] You think everything about sex is a "job" - which means you belive everyone in it is very selfish and the only way to get what you want is to do a job for someone else, then they "owe" you something.
If you were one of the guys who got his head cut off by William Wallace in 'Braveheart' then that thinking probably made sense at the time - what? 600 years ago?
But wives aren't property, sex should focus on pleasing someone else, not yourself, and no - she won't be changing her sex drive for you any time soon so you better have the 'end of my rope deal-breaker' talk with her.
2007-03-16 15:55:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No deprived people here, dude.
We get all that we desire, and then some.
Of course, we were both two horny rabbits when we first met, and that hasn't changed over 36 yrs. of marriage.
A "woman's job." Ohhhhh, dude. Be civilized, for Christ's sake. I hope you can duck flying cookware.
The "man's job?"
You been listening to Joe, or what?
Hey, the amount of sex in a marriage should totally be the decision of the people in it. Hopefully, they're both getting what they need, but it could range from once a week to seven times a week.
To each their own.
2007-03-16 15:12:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married 6 years and we're not sex deprived. I do believe it is my job, per se to satisfy. What I mean is that even though I sometimes do not feel like it, I do bc I want him to get it here, always.
He does have to do some work, sometimes I give him free passes.
My hubby gets it daily, I also have a high sex drive though.
Some women struggle cos they don't want to and don't feel they should have to. I don't think it should be that you have to but that you want to out of love.
2007-03-16 15:03:20 · answer #5 · answered by Amy B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not married but definetly sex deprived. Been together for 6 years. The man should make every effort for the woman to want to satisfy him. My boyfriend does not understand that part at all!
2007-03-16 14:51:23 · answer #6 · answered by Mo the Great 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well I am not sex deprived but it is both partners 'job" as you call it to satisfy each other sexually. But its more of wanting to than a job. When you are in love with someone you will sastify them no matter what you do.. sexually or not
2007-03-16 14:51:16 · answer #7 · answered by unforseenfantasy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too funny not to answer. Of course it's his job to get her to want to satisfy him. If he's good, she will want to, he won't have to do much, but once your married, he may have to work more on being nice verbally. Men tend to forget how good they have it. Sex everynight, and more, if he's nice. What single man can have that? It's easy for a woman to satisfy her husband. It shouldn't be a job though.
2007-03-16 15:05:46 · answer #8 · answered by ME!! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your statements are a bit vague-satisfy the man(when, all the time?) life happens and more times than not a women will go thru spells of not feeling sexual AT ALL, post partum, sleep deprived etc. Men should inspire their women to put out, some confusion prevails about this however...Flowers, nope, candy, nope...clear the table, wash the dishes, deal with the kids and put them to bed-WHILE I'm soaking in a bubble bath...rub my back and ask about my day WITHOUT offering ONE shred of advice-WATCH OUT-the sheets will be ON FIRE!!!!! (or the kitchen table for that matter)
2007-03-16 14:57:02 · answer #9 · answered by bikinibabewannabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say BOTH should satisfy the other EQUALLY!
and BOTH should make the other want to!
realistically,its always one more than the other! LOL
but in an ideal world.....
one worked more hours ,one is sick,one was up with the kid all night etc...
life isn't fair and neither is sex!
just enjoy it when ya get it! LOL
2007-03-16 14:51:38 · answer #10 · answered by adc7492 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋