In class we were going on a field trip, and i chose one girl as a partner instead of my best friend just b/c we did everything together and she was starting to annoy the crap out of me. it is 6 months later and she still hates my guts. i didn't want to be her friend in the begining but now i think it is stupid that we arent friends over that. But all of my friends tell me that she says even if i were to apologize it was too late and she never wants to be my friend. Don't get me wrong i am not crying myself to sleep b/c she isn't my friend or anything, but what should i do?
2007-03-16 14:18:26 · 4 answers · asked by Star 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you feel bad about what happened and the way things happen, then I would write a note about how you are feeling. Write how you feel about what happened, and even apologize if you feel like you should or just want to let her know that you feel bad for the way things happen. Just leave it open like "Hey, I just wanted to let you know that I'm sorry for what happened." It doesn't have to be a letter of you begging for her forgiveness. Just state your feelings and leave it at that. At least she will know how you feel about it. It might help you put some closure on this subject and whatever happens with you guys happens.
I've been through this sitation before. My best friend and I stopped talking for about a year. One day I wrote her a letter about how I felt and we weren't buddy buddy right away, but we eventually got close again. We're still best friends to this day.
2007-03-16 14:30:13 · answer #1 · answered by Jenn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely nothing since she annoys the crap out of you. Unless you want some more! Let it go and turn the page" Do not listen to gossips either. Turn your back and do whatever you need to do and the way you want to. This is not a best friend dear heart. It is not stupid not to want to be friend with someone who annoys us. Are you that lonely? There are plenty of other people who would love to be your friend. To me; a new circle of friends would be good for you. Think about it.
Good luck
2007-03-16 14:48:15 · answer #2 · answered by montralia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! just to start off the almost same thing happened to me and four of my friends and they say even if i apologize they won't accept it because i ruined it. But to me frands aren't ppal who stay with you forever, they come and go so if she was really your true friend she wouldn't get mad at you for such a small thing. itz okay if she don't like you because you know that you have other friends that is about the same or even better than her. Well consider me one of your friends if you like cus i have the same problem. Well like i said if she was really meant to be your friend then she wouldn't get mad at you for not choosing her. So wait to see if she cools off and if she don't just try to forget her.
2007-03-16 14:27:55 · answer #3 · answered by Hoa L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just forget about her the same thing happned to me.....but it was also a little difff. my best friend erika got new friends that absolutaly hated my guts and she liked them a whole lot more than me and she yelled at me for trying to fix our friendship.....i think that ur "friend" just wants attention so move on dont give her what she wants and make new friends:)
2007-03-16 14:27:41 · answer #4 · answered by cuyie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋