2007-03-16 14:16:22 · 7 answers · asked by september 2 in Social Science ➔ Economics
I don't think so, but since we are all victim's of our upbringing...if you were taught that you should be, it is very difficult to not feel guilty if you are not. Plus, it depends on your future husband's views...both of you should be on the same page, I mean, if you decided not to have sex before the marriage with your fiance, that's fine; however, he should know then that you had previous partners...
2007-03-16 14:35:56 · answer #1 · answered by avechm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that happened because of her own mistake, feeling guilty is all it takes for a better life with pride & dignity to move on after the marriage. Somehow, men should not expect to marry a virgin if he himself not the one. Most importantly is to take the lesson from the past and move on.
2007-03-16 23:35:39 · answer #2 · answered by Fir 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is extremely rare for a virgin to get married. Even if a woman is not exactly promiscuous, most women and men will have relationships while they are engaged, if not before.
There is certainly nothing to be embarrassed about if one is not a virgin. The important thing is not who is the first lover, but who is the last.
2007-03-16 22:20:48 · answer #3 · answered by dirty t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you should be happy since you waited that long to give up your virginity trust me most girls virginity is gone by the time they are married
2007-03-16 21:25:23 · answer #4 · answered by hello 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should only feel guilty if the man she marries thinks she is.
2007-03-16 23:20:40 · answer #5 · answered by ragincajun1957 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No way - you have to 'try before you buy' so to speak!
2007-03-16 21:30:59 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ Mysterious ♥ 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
not really.
2007-03-16 21:19:15 · answer #7 · answered by mitu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋