Okay, ladies and gentlemen, I'm out here again because my sister is about to drive me up the wall. She's been dating this man who is 7 years older than her, they kind of share her apartment when he's in town, he works in the country 100 miles away.
He's told her on the phone after ending a call that he loves her, but used another woman's name...instead of "I love you,Sherry", he said, "I love you, Mary." (who, he explained, was a friend of the family he's known forever. He told her she was the only one for him and yet she found a website where he was declaring that another girl on the site was his, "one and only..." (he explained this as being lonely at the time and being stupid.) Now, he ended a phone call with, "I love you, we'll talk at our usual midnight time." She said they usually talk at 10p.m. because she still has schoolage children. When she tried to ask him about the slip, he immediately changed the subject and rushed off the phone. Slip or is he slippery?
2007-03-16 14:02:32 · 31 answers · asked by Yankee Micmac 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
They only give you so many characters to work with. She does ask for my advice, when I think what she really wants is for me to say it's nothing, but at the same time asks for my, "honest opinion as her sister."
I was truthful with her when that Mary thing was said. I have 3 sons too and only when I'm mad do I mix up their names.
I think he's slippery too, there's been some interesting reasons as to what kind of slippery, some of it kinda funny, but I want more answers from my Yahoo Answer peers, you guys and girls are the 3rd party not invested in any way with me, her or "it," *sorry, slip of the tongue* I mean...HIM.
2007-03-16 14:47:37 · update #1
Trouble. No doubt about it.
He only spends time with her on weekends? I would question if he is living another life as well as one with your sister.
Perhaps he is married through the week and with sis on weekends. It wouldnt be that complicated for him to do.
Not talking until after 10 pm would also work for him as well, because wifey probably would be in bed by then too.
Maybe i am too suspiscious and I hope i am not, but something just dont sound right. He is avoiding the conversation for a reason.
Hope it all works out.
Good luck.
2007-03-16 14:13:28 · answer #1 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
He sounds slippery. Doesn't she notice that? He lives 100 miles away, he's got a "one & only" on a website? He calls her another girl's name? Hello? Obviously he's a user.
Tell her you love her, care about her, want the best for her & help her in any way you can. Do you have any guy friends who are nice, genuine & honest that you can set her up with? If not, why not take her out for a girls' night out & introduce her to some fun.
Your sister is lucky to have you. Help her out & I wish you both the best.
2007-03-16 14:09:53 · answer #2 · answered by sweet pea 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just for the fun of it! Next time he calls your sister should accidentally call him by another name and explain "Oh, oops that is my best friend's dog's name." or something equally silly. Then say something about how much fun it was to go dancing or to go to the movie/ just anything they haven't done for awhile and the say "Oh, oops that is what I did with my Sunday school class when I was lonely."
Your sister may as well get a laugh out of it because.......
This guy is using her for free room and board and fringe benefits. Shame on her for having this traveling jerk in her house with her kids. Your sister should go today and be tested for all STD's and change her phone number and tell traveling jerk to hit the road
2007-03-16 14:17:14 · answer #3 · answered by kitchenheatindex 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 01:27:14 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slippery, she needs to understand it is what it is...He is playing the field and in the country there is alot of field to play in...If she wants any stability in a relationship this is not the guy to pursue.
2007-03-16 14:09:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's called an affair sweety. Get her out of there! he is married and has you, I mean your sister for a little something on the side! Not to mention he also is having his way with Mary too when he is in her little town!
2007-03-16 14:07:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well he is a cheating backstabbing jerk-off. I do believe that is the name of his hideous species... You know lurking in the shadows waiting for the opportune vulnerable woman to come along and snare in his trap of defiance and lust.
2007-03-16 14:14:21 · answer #7 · answered by MARE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course he's slippery. If it walks like a duck, talks like a duck and looks like one--avoid him like he's poison because that's what he is.
2007-03-16 14:06:54 · answer #8 · answered by DelK 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Definitely slippery. Tell her to cut him loose so he can be with "Mary"
2007-03-16 14:06:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Slippery! ooooh, bad bad boy.
2007-03-16 14:06:20 · answer #10 · answered by pepper 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋