Why is he so mean to me?

Question

There is this guy in my class he tripps me up,he pulled my hair and made my hairbow go out the window of the second floor at school,me and him argue sometimes,he tells me to shut up for no reason,he threw a paper tower in my face and dosen't treat my friends this Why could he be so mean to me?,When I get upset about half of the stuff he does he says I was just playing

Answer 1

Maybe he does not understand that you do not think that this is funny. In his mind, he may feel that you are such good friends that these jokes are totally comfortable.(Fights or not)
Tell him that "just playing" is not okay anymore. For your sake, fight through it. Finish yourself, and raise your voice. He will get the message.
After that do not look in his genreal direction,speak to him, or even acknowledge him when he trips you up.
If this behaviour continues go to an adult leader, and vent. By vent I mean tell all.
If he is really this bad,you won't really care if he gets detention, or whatever punishment.
Now if you do care, on the otherhand, talk to him personally, raise your voice or not and tell him if this friendship is going to work,you have to treat me like a friend, not a dog.
I will pray for you, and I hope this helped.
~Mac

Answer 2

Personally, that happens to me all the time. It means he likes you. Lots of guys show their affection in a different way. For instance, they can show it to you by you giving more attention then others, or hanging out with you and your friends alot and etc. Also, when he sees you get upset and says he is just kidding it means he really cares about you.

Answer 3

Wow...Stuff like this can actually happen to girls??? I thought shits like this happened only to me, Probably because you are better in many things and they just dont like it.

I was best in most of the things I did and they couldnt accept it, so they made fun of me. If a guy does that to a girl its either because he thinks youre ugly or because you are being a *****.

Answer 4

when he tells you that he was just playing...let him know that you do not play like that and that there is a limit and a difference between fun and playing and just plain being mean or unthoughtful...he sees that you put up with it so he is testing your limits....you may have to go to a teacher or someone in authority if he keeps it up...trying letting him know nicely but firmly to stop it...if he doesn't then go get some help with this bully

Answer 5

Someone has a crush on you. ;)

If you're a middle schooler then this is you're average guy trying to tell ya he likes ya. Even so, don't let him treat you badly. Boys should know thats no way to treat a lady. :)

Answer 6

I think he's just trying to get your attention, but not sure how to go about it. This relationship thing is new to him and he doesn't know how to deal with it. I believe he is actually just shy, and is trying to be outgoing. Try to be patient with him and don't fall for his childish antics. The more you show emotion to his pranks, the more he'll keep doing this.

Answer 7

first of all I would have to know how old you are, this sounds like elementary type stuff, if it's older than junior high, I am sure he must not like you. But at the younger age, it's his way of flirting!

Answer 8

The answers to your problem is right here ok so the first thing you do is to see if he has a gang so if you were to walk up to him you wouldnt get jumped.Anyway if he doesnt have a gang then after shcool beat him up if he does have a gang then you get a gang and then later after shcool gang up on him and his gang let him have it!

Answer 9

Sounds like he likes you. Or is just wanting a good asskicking. My advice would be to have someone else pound him.

Answer 10

wats the social status of u both? which one of yall is in the in-crowd could be a factor.