There is this guy in my class he tripps me up,he pulled my hair and made my hairbow go out the window of the second floor at school,me and him argue sometimes,he tells me to shut up for no reason,he threw a paper tower in my face and dosen't treat my friends this Why could he be so mean to me?
2007-03-16 13:09:06 · 15 answers · asked by GirlLab 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
he likes you and he doesn't know how to express it, so he tries to get your attention by being mean to you...
2007-03-16 13:15:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey, he doesnt love you at all. LOVE DOESNT HURT/ABUSE OTHERS. But if he hates you that's his problem. You need to report his behavior and actions to the school principle asap. And tell your parents, too. Your safety may be at risk. This guy may have some mental problems. In the meantime, stand up for yourself by saying, "STOP IT!" loud and clear each time he harrasses you. Your voice tone will create attention from friends and others which will help you if action has to be taken against this rude fool!
Also try taking a trusted friend (witness) with you and confront this jerk and ask him is he angry with you or have you unknowingly offended him in some way. If the answers are 'no', than ask him why is he so rude towards you. If he gets smart mouth, tell him that you wont allow this behavior any more and walk away. Dont argue with him and dont look back. Hold your shoulders and head up! He most likely will test your words, so follow through with what you said and seek authoritative help. Don't go it alone.
2007-03-16 20:32:02 · answer #2 · answered by ODP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, DON'T TAKE THIS FROM HIM. You have a right to your personal safety. By letting this continue you are telling him that you are willing to be bullied and worse, that maybe you like this extremely negative attention, why else wouldn't you stop it?
Secondly, all the women on this board are telling you he likes you, this is ridiculous. Even if he does like you, this is an awful and unhealthy way to show it and would only lead to more abuse if you entered into a dating relationship with him.
You need to speak to someone at the school about his behaviour and you need to talk to your parents about it so that they can follow through with the school.
Also, why aren't your friends protecting you or standing up to him? That is awfully weak-minded of them not too.
Whatever you do, do not let him continue doing this to you, it degrades you, makes you feel awful adn sends the message that this is all you are worth, which is completely not true!
2007-03-16 20:13:11 · answer #3 · answered by meraphetamine 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gurl he likes you some boys they will be mean some would stay quit but others will just be nice but in this case he is mean because he likes you but don't know how to tell you or get over it and until he does one of these he will not stop just try to ignore him it is the best thing to do right now at less that what I think I hope you find the answer you are looking for good luck and remember Ignore him
2007-03-17 00:21:01 · answer #4 · answered by New Yorker Girl 516 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok. there are a few possibilities of what this means...but here are the main 2
a) he's obsessed with you, but you wouldn't know that he's TOTALLY shy. he might be doing all these nasty things just for attention, because he knows your reaction before he does it. he might not like the idea of rejection from you if he tried to get close to you. maybe that's why he only does these things to you, because you're the one who's on his mind all the time.
b) he's a jerk. he could be one of those genuinely mean people, and just gets his fun out of picking on others he doesn't think are perfect (despite the fact that nobody is).
2007-03-16 20:20:28 · answer #5 · answered by echo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he does this because he likes you. Guys don't always know how to deal with liking a girl and sometimes they show it in the craziest ways. And if he only treats you like this it really makes me think he likes you.
Unfortunately, it doesn't get any better as guys get older. I recently had a guy who likes me break a water balloon over my head at our company's picnic. He is 25.
2007-03-16 20:15:11 · answer #6 · answered by Hopeful girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you let him...the same thing happened to me when i was in school...i stood up to him and we even fought...i slapped him all of the black board...i later found out that the only reason he did that was becuz he had a crush on me and since he had heard me tell my friend that he wasnt my type...but in your case maybe he's just a bully...or he just does it because he knows it bothers you...if he keeps doing it just tell your teacher or just kick him in the balls...
2007-03-16 20:19:14 · answer #7 · answered by SEXYCHULA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've heard a lot of times that a guy is mean to a girl because he likes her and isn't sure how to express his feelings or act around her. Maybe he likes you!
2007-03-16 20:22:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety you need to understand that boys are strong....and if you give them just an inch they will take advantage of that inch....so if boys are strong you need to be stronger.....lose the bows and get some back bone!! i'm not going to say your easy cause your not...but you play easy and you need to get down and dirty....even if that means to stand and get hit a few more times ...tell him you've had it with his crap! you have your rights to.......take all the crap he's pulled on you and tell him to shuv it up his face and that your tired of being tormented......be the bigger person....GOOD LUCK!
2007-03-16 20:28:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause he's a BULLY!kick his a**! Seriously,tell the principle.
2007-03-16 20:14:29 · answer #10 · answered by gotabedifferent 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he probably likes you a lot. If thats not the case fight back you shouldnt have to take that from him.
2007-03-16 20:41:08 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋