I had my tubes tied a year ago and now I'm pregnant. After my 3rd child the doctor told me I could die if I got pregnant again so I got my tubes tied and now I'm pregnant. I don't belive in abortion I mean it's not for me but what do I do? help!
2007-03-16 13:05:00 · 17 answers · asked by mommiie 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
let me explain, after my 3rd c-section because of the scaring and bleeding . but said I am too young to have my uterus removed
2007-03-16 14:12:34 · update #1
You should go straight to your doctor!!! My sister had a tubal but the doctor didn't catch it... Her tubes burst and she almost died. Hopefully, it's not, and things go okay for you. good luck and take care of yourself.
2007-03-16 15:21:04 · answer #1 · answered by April 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could be wrong but I thought when you got your tubes tied and became pregnant the end result was a tubal pregnancy which you have no choice but to abort because your tubes could burst and you could die. I'd go to the doctor right away because if it's a tubal pregnancy you should have it removed ASAP. If I'm not correct and it's not a tubal pregnancy I'd still go to the doctor and find out if everything is okay, if every things okay than keep the baby if you don't want to have an abortion. If you decide to keep the baby than don't just get them tied, get them tied, clipped, and burned it's called sterilization by laparoscopy. I just inquired some information about this because I have 3 boys and 37weeks pregnant with another baby and I don't want anymore children and like you I don't believe in abortions.
2007-03-16 13:15:39 · answer #2 · answered by missingNYC 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I will be keeping you in my prayers!!!! Just remember God knew that you would get pregnant, and He knows all about your medical condition, whatever it may be. Make sure you talk to your doctor about everything you can do to make sure that you both stay safe during the pregnancy. My sister was told that she could never have a baby or it would kill her. I was going to be her surrogate, but a new doctor told her she could have a baby, but she would be a bedrest most of the time, and that she has to have it one month early. She is only 8 weeks along, now, but we know that God has a plan, and this baby is so special already. We cannot wait for him/her to arrive. The pregnacy will require alot of sacrifices to make sure the baby arrives safe and sound, and that my sister stays well. Doctors will tell you what is the best thing to do, and can advise, but they do not know what WILL happen. Obviously this baby wants to come into the world, He must be a fighter already, to overcome tied tubes. Give him a chance!!! I pray things go well for you. If you ever need someone to talk to email me at imnanny42@gmail.com Praying for all of you!!!!!!!
2007-03-16 13:18:42 · answer #3 · answered by Been there done that 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you 100% sure you are pregnant, or are you just late and feeling like blah? If you had your tubes tied then there is a good chance the pregnancy (if there is one) is ectopic, or outside of the uterus. I would definitely call the doctor and make an appointment and if you experience and severe pain in the abdomen in that area go to the ER so they can make sure you don't have an ectopic pregnancy, which is life threatening to you and the baby will not survive.
2007-03-16 13:17:52 · answer #4 · answered by sandra j 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I had my tubes tied 5 yrs. ago. I have a set of beautiful and healthy 3 yr. old twins now. So It happens more often then people think. I did not however have a life threatning condition such as yourself. My advice would be to follow your heart and definatly talk to your dr. Talk with your husband, express all of your concerns.If giving birth was so life threatning for you, why didn't your dr. Cut and burn your tubes to further prevent you from getting pregnant. There are miracles in everything, however you don't want to leave the 3 miracles you already have behind. Good luck to you. I wish you well in your decision.
2007-03-16 13:36:47 · answer #5 · answered by nodrama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a second opinion from a different ob. A lot of times women can carry to term and give birth c-section and be fine if they are at risk...talk to your doctor and explain,they will run tests and give u the results...i am against abortion as well,and try your hardest to find out if there is no way to carry this baby before going through this drastic decision..good luck!
2007-03-16 14:03:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just make sure you stay down during your pregnancy. I dont know what happened to you the last time, but hopefully your doctor will know exactly what to do for you and how to help you out. Hopefully everything will be okay for you and your baby. I would definitley go have a talk with the doctor that did the surgery for you.. But if I were you I would just go ahead with the pregnancy and take great care..
2007-03-16 13:58:25 · answer #7 · answered by Blondi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be contacting the doctor who did the procedure. Apparently something isnt right.
Wow hun, what a dilemma.
I honestly dont know what to tell u because i am anti abortion as well. But, I understand the health risks with u too.
I suggest talking to a physician and explore all options.
Good luck hun. God bless u and this baby.
2007-03-16 13:27:17 · answer #8 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
With this pregnancy, I believe you have no choice but to abort. As someone before me said, it is almost a sure thing you will have a tubal pregnancy that will not survive anyway. And for the future, remember NOTHING is 100% unless you have your entire uterus removed. If you don't want to become pregnant, practice safe sex. Condoms and all. I'm very sorry about your current situation.
2007-03-16 13:34:46 · answer #9 · answered by EYoungmom88 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You don't abort the baby... you said you know it's wrong. Why does the dr think you could die? Obviously getting pregnant didn't make you die... I think you should see where this goes. My gut tells me you'll be fine.
Have you considered going to a Pro-Life ob/gyn? They will be more supportive!!
2007-03-16 14:01:53 · answer #10 · answered by Trouble's Mama 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋