Alright, so I have this friend, he's a guy, and I sorta like him but I don't know how to get closer tohim without being really obvious. I want to be more than just one of the guys, seeing as I'm a big tomboy.. but I'm having trouble, can you help?
2007-03-16 12:49:47 · 11 answers · asked by Mel C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
fix ur self up so u start lookin hot,(if u dont already) and ull get his attention. Also do things like grab his hand when your laughing and tryo to touch up on him
2007-03-16 15:21:29 · answer #1 · answered by rubinov33 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are like dogs ... you have to train him. Sit, Speak, Good Dog. Give him admiration when he does something good. Don't acknowledge him when he does something bad. hmmm something sutle ... go to the beach and oops my top fell off :) can you help me put it back on. lol ... big wave :)
But seriously ... plant the seed and see what grows. Say jokingly wouldn't it be great if you and me went out one of these weekends. See how he reacts ... if he freaks out laugh it off. If he says yeah ... let it go and add maybe you could ask me out some time. and leave it at that... until he does ask you out. If he seems interested flatter him from time to time ... ask him who he wants to be later in life and find those characteristics in who he is today. If you want to go with less try some make-up or a low cut top, a skirt whatever you like ... less classy but it should still make heads turn even if its not the one you want. good luck.
2007-03-24 00:13:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look alright you need to do 5 things tol find out this
1. what are they into
2.how do they really act
3. who are trhere closest friends
4.who knows what trhey want to be
5.where do they live?
for me and this girl katie i just sat with her at lunch at school talked to her and found out she liked poetry. soon after i started writing poems and she said they were so sweet and romantic,
pretty soon i started walking her home everyday and sitting in her room watching tv and shiznits soon after one day i wrote her a romatic poem and shoved it in her locker ( friends helped me find where it was) because katie is really secretive sometimes because she wants to be a poet like me. one day we were walking along and the opened her locker, she saw the note and her eyes filled up with tears as she read it she threw her arms around me and there that was it
see i used 1-5 on the what to know and look this was a girl i had asked out since kindergarten and never said yes to
also just try to get intyo what they are itno but remain yourself on the inside
2007-03-24 11:40:21 · answer #3 · answered by drooley_dog8 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be there when he needs someone,give him advises and supports when he is in trouble,know what he likes and dislikes,share what u both are interest in common..but the important thing is just be yourself..=) good luck!
2007-03-24 01:04:52 · answer #4 · answered by lemon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be rlly nice to him but not too nice. if you dont already look hot fix your self up. and dont act like a slut be your self but try to get him to like you like you like him.
2007-03-23 21:18:44 · answer #5 · answered by caublenick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay well if you think that you don't feel conftoble getting closer don't but tell him how you feel bout him and evrything will fall into place....=)
2007-03-24 16:09:46 · answer #6 · answered by jnaljessie2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try fixing him something from home - your fav dish and share it with him... bake a cookie etc... go through his stomach...
2007-03-24 14:27:58 · answer #7 · answered by ladybug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel
2007-03-24 13:48:06 · answer #8 · answered by Maggie Muggins 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself!
2007-03-23 10:19:11 · answer #9 · answered by my spill canvas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk towards him
2007-03-24 15:05:08 · answer #10 · answered by CAN-E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋