sometimes ppl are TOO nice to me and i'm not too nice so it makes me feel uncomfortable, what can i do to not come short of being nice(in other words returning their kidness) but i just want to be myself and be comfortable i dont want to have to say extra things that i dont mean/feel
2007-03-16 12:40:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Yeah, that's hard. But you see, you can return their kindness by just being yourself, you don't have to act as if you were someone nicer. You can act nice the way you want to act it and the way you think you won't feel intimidated. 'Coz if you will just be nice yet you don't feel it, it's not worth it, you're just wasting your time. At least, if you are not that nice, you can guarantee to yourself that you are only being true. =)
2007-03-16 12:51:21 · answer #1 · answered by Kisses 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to be nice because you don't feel like it then you are just serving your self, this is called selfish. Do you really think someone cares if you are having a nice day when they ask? They don't , but they are trying to be civil. Sometimes things are not about you but about the whole, so be positive and treat people good that are trying to be nice to you.
2007-03-16 13:48:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You chose the wrong name for yourself then. If you're afraid that you will feel forced to be nice just hang around with mean people who will have no expectations of you. Be careful what you wish for.
2007-03-16 12:48:20 · answer #3 · answered by bombastic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say it i know it doesnt make you feel any less comfortable maybe youll like the new you???
2007-03-16 12:45:11 · answer #4 · answered by Muh-Kay-Luh cArTeR :]] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋